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WIN OR LOSE

Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose.

Sometimes we win  the game, the award and sometimes we lose the very thing we want most.

Winning matters. Losing matters. But in life what matters most is what we do with our wins and losses.

When we win do we become complacent or stay humble and hungry?

People often say that success breeds success but often it breeds complacency. After a win people think they can just show up and achieve the same result, forgetting the effort, determination and mindset it took to achieve the win.

To continue winning it’s essential to turn the euphoria of winning into a fire of burning desire that fuels your continuous improvement, passion, and quest for excellence.

Even more important than what we do after our wins is how we respond to our losses. Do we give up or come back stronger? Do we allow the loss to act like a cancer that eats away at us for the rest of our life or do we turn it into a learning opportunity that leads to our healthy growth?

Everyone loses but the key is to make the loss stand for something and that is  learning Opportunity ,and  Staying Strong .

When we lose we ask what we can learn from this loss and how we can improve because of it. Then we stay strong and work harder to get better.This leads to more wins in the future..and also more losses that give us opportunities to learn more and develop our character stronger.

Through this process of winning and losing we learn the greatest lesson of all:

No matter how hard we work and how much we improve there will be times when we experience the worst of defeats instead of the greatest of victories.

 But ultimately life is about more than winning or losing. It’s about the lessons we learn, the character and strength we build and the people we become along the way.

When we understand this we will surely be a winner in the game of life!

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कर्मण्ये वाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन ।

The age old saying of Srimad Bhagvat Geeta, has been recited trillions and trillions of times, it says You have the right to work only but never to its fruits. Let not the fruits of action be your motive, nor let your attachment be to inaction.
Best way to live a great life is to Keep adding to the reservoir of your *सत्कर्म*, which are said to promote health and well-being by purifying the whole body , being kind to others, selflessly helping anyone in need, bringing positive changes in someone’s life .
You don’t have to wait for someone to get into trouble and then reach out to him… be proactive, preempt the kindness that you can do to the society and the humanity when you are blessed enough with the strength to bring about a positive change! Possess positive attitude and thoughts, do good to others, spread love, harmony, kindness , peace with benevolent intentions, do your best possible to drive away misery from the lives of His  creations and stay blessed .
Always Do Good In The World and enjoy the fruits of HAPPINESS.

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THINK BIG ..

As you think you become… No one, not even the God Almighty, can give you beyond your beliefs. Your life depends on the size of your thinking… you get what you believe the life can give! Remember your beliefs change only through self-realization and perseverance and not so by merely listening to lectured Gyan or praying to the God Almighty. Dream big, believe you can get there, back it up with relentless action, continuously increase the *SIZE* and *QUALITY* of your thoughts, *BELIEVE* in yourself and *Go On Going On.* You will surely find happiness, success and abundance in life.

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LETTING GO ….

One of life’s biggest challenges is to let go. The only way to go beyond where we are in our life is to let go of things, people, habits and beliefs that keep us where we are instead of where we want to be. For a trapeze artiste, to get from one side of the net to the other, he or she must be prepared to let go. Similarly, we cannot discover new oceans unless we have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
We should not forget that as long as our palms are holding on tight to people and things, we cannot be open to receive the beautiful gifts that life has to offer. Therefore, we need to take stock of every single thing that holds us back and exchange those limitations for a life of limitless potentialities and possibilities, a life that is more personally and professionally fulfilling and rewarding. To achieve this, sometimes we simply have to let go!

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MY BIGGEST SATISFACTION AND COMFORT IN LIFE …

When I am the reason for a smile on someone’s face, it gives me most satisfaction in life. The reason for a smile by giving away generously the things I love the most; inspiring someone with my simple and kind actions; by reaching out to people especially the needy; by healing someone with my gentle touch; by listening, caring and understanding someone wholeheartedly; by cheerfully sacrificing myself for someone in need; by forgiving or asking forgiveness from someone with a sincere heart; by praying and feeling deeply for someone; by struggling day in and day out for someone’s welfare. When I look behind, these are the moments inscribed on my heart which give me the most satisfaction and comfort in life .

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NO RISK, NO REWARD!

No risk, no reward. It’s a very true saying. I truly believe in it. When you think about business, if you don’t take any risks, how are you going to get ahead? How are you going to leapfrog ahead?

If you think that success in life and in career is all about luck, think again! Shallow people believe in luck whereas wise people in cause and effect.

No wonder, Virgil, the greatest of the Roman Poets, wrote 2,000 years ago, Fortune sides with him who dares. In short, good fortune does not come to us; we go to it by taking risks.

Would Columbus have found the new world had he not dared where no one had gone before? Everything we are as a people was created by others before us who risked it all.

Perhaps the greatest risk in life is not taking any risk. By not taking risks we don’t grow. Our reluctance to take risks prevents us from living a quality life. A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for!

For some, taking risks involves the possibility of losing money, If so, let us ask ourselves before taking every risk, what is the worst thing that could happen? If we balance that with the best thing that could happen, isn’t the best possible outcome of our risk-taking always worth?
Therefore, dare yourself to risk, for your life is worth it. For me, Risk leads to Reward. Take a stand to do what you believe, and then stick to the game plan!

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WORKING TOGETHER MAKES A DIFFERENCE

“Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success.” Henry Ford

In spite of all our differences, we need one another to grow as social beings. But the sad fact is that individualism has been raised almost to a religion. Success justifies greed and greed justifies indifference to fellow human beings.

The fact is that we truly do complement one another. We share the commonality called humanity. Though our differences vary, our basic needs remain same. There is no true life and happiness for us in the absence of our fellow-humans. It is the feeling of getting accepted and being loved that acts as a driving force in our lives. We will experience the real joy of living only when we realize that each of us is a piece of a puzzle, and that without one another, we would make the picture incomplete.

Our differences should make us reach out to one another. They should bring us closer together in order to learn from and about one another. That’s how we grow. We need to celebrate difference until it doesn’t t make a difference.

Finally, togetherness brings about progress. What cannot be achieved by a single soul, can be achieved by the combined efforts of many.  “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Says Helen Keller . Remember the age-old saying, “United we stand, divided we fall “.

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MY 2023 RESOLUTION….

9 out of 10 people will fail with their New Year resolutions.

50% of resolution makers will fail by the end of January.

But One Word sticks!

Instead of creating endless goals and resolutions, I choose One Word to be my driving force for the year. Just one word that creates clarity, power, passion and life-change.

After lot of consideration and thoughts I chose My word as EAGLE ! I know it may sound strange but I need to focus on soaring above my trials & tribulations, social groups gossip & politics etc. I’m excited to see how this one word focus changes my perception of things

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WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT???

Life is a beautiful journey that is meant to be embraced to the fullest every day. However, that doesn’t mean you always wake up ready to seize the day, and sometimes need a reminder that life is a great gift. 

Life is not about keeping score nor Its about how many friends you have. It is not about who your family is or how much money they have. Or what kind of car you drive. It is not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or how many credit cards you are holding. It is certainly not about how smart you are, how smart everyone else thinks you are.

But life is about who you love and who you hurt. life is about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully. It is about keeping or betraying trust. It is about friendship, used as sanctity, or as a weapon. It is about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. It is about what judgments you pass and why. And who your judgments are spread to. 

But most of all, it is about using your life to touch or poison other people’s hearts in such a way that could never occurred alone. Only you choose the way these hearts are affected and those choices are what life is all about. 

Life isn’t a matter of milestones, but of moments. Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. In simple words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on. If my life is going to mean anything, I have to live it myself.”


For me the most important Four things in life are – your character , your health, your mission, and the people you love. That’s it.

And most importantly “Success isn’t about how your life looks to others. It’s about how it feels to you.”

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AFTER I GO ..

I like to be remembered by generations after me, definitely not as foe, but a dear and a close friend; one who brought smiles on many faces; upon whom people could bestow their faith; one who was with others in their good and bad days.
But most importantly I like to be remembered as the one who prayed to God every morning for providing yet another beautiful day; as the one who could feel the fragrance of flowers and at the same time could see the beauty of weeds.
I like to be remembered as the one who lived in a way that life itself should acknowledge, He lived me up!

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LOVE THE GREATEST GIFT ….

Love is beautiful, spacious, exhilarating. When we truly love, it’s not only the body of the other person we love. If we only love the body, then it’s not love — it’s lust. When we really love someone, we love their essence, their soul, the core of the other person, not only their body. That’s how you know it’s really love.

The dilemma is that so often we don’t really love someone’s core essence – we only love what they do for us or how they treat us or how they make us feel. And, when we love for that reason, that’s more like a contract than like love.

“When someone says he loves you more, he does not mean he loves you more than you love him . He means he loves you more than the bad days ahead of both of them . He loves you more than any fight both of you will ever have. He loves you more than the distance between both of you . He loves you more than any obstacle that could try and come between both. He loves you the most.”

All the same Love isn’t about turning a blind eye to difficulties. It’s about identifying them, understanding them, and moving forward despite them. Love presumes to see the other person in their most authentic light, to acknowledge all their imperfections, and choose to embrace them.

When problems ensue, one should not disregard them, and one should avoid pointing fingers at each other as it can only cause additional conflict. Partners in a relationship should act accordingly by working together to find a solution that benefits both of them.

All said and done, I would say that Love is the greatest gift given to man! Save it and enhance it .

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LIVE FULL LIFE

Life is a beautiful journey that is meant to be embraced to the fullest every day. However, that doesn’t mean you always wake up ready to seize the day, and sometimes need a reminder that life is a great gift.

We come into the world through birth; we grow, mature, decline and then die. Is it life all about? Then what is the difference between animals and humans? Are we really alive or are we just existing? For many of us, life is like ‘sleep-walking’ with a few of our needs met and doing the same thing everyday.

Most of the time our decisions are based on habit, tradition, obligation, or the expectations of others. How wonderful it is when you are living fully a conscious life that speaks who you are and reflects fully the values and aspirations most important to you! You feel fully connected to those you love, engaged fully to life itself and are living a life that is an expression of human warmth and beauty of the inner and outer self.

Every flower blooms only for a few hours in a day. However it looks beautiful and brings joy to all who look at it. Similarly it does not matter how long we live. All that matters is the way we live.

Therefore, Start living to make a difference and leave a legacy. The real secret of living a significant life is to stay fully alive till your last breath.  “Sing like no one’s listening, love like you’ve never been hurt, dance like nobody’s watching, and live like it’s heaven on earth.”

Whether you are ready or not, one day the entire life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching! Therefore, do all the good you can, for all the people you can, in all the ways you can, as long as you can.”

MAY YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY IT SHOULD BE LIVED…..FULLY .

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YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO ACHIEVE…

There’s almost no visible difference between the winners and the losers.
The highest paid salesperson, and the one who rarely makes a sale, both have the same basic skills and resources. The difference is in what they do with what they have.

The best selling novelist, and the unpublished writer, both have the same dictionary full of words to work with. The difference is in what they do with what they have.
You already have the raw material for success and achievement. You have what it takes to achieve greatness in anything you desire. Within you is the potential for extraordinary accomplishment. No one is better suited for success than you. Yet, you are the one who must make it happen. You are the one who must make the commitment, and do whatever it takes, to achieve the greatness of which you’re capable. You have what it takes.  “Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for: it is a thing to be achieved.” ~ says William Jennings Bryan
Make it happen!
Ashok Mahajan 
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TAKE THE FIRST STEP ….

The Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu said; “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step”. He wasn’t wrong, because you won’t get anywhere unless you start the journey.

The proverb ‘a journey of thousand miles begins with a single step’ means that big achievements and goals are made through small but concrete resolves. Dreams and life goals are achieved by making a path plan and taking the first step towards it.

The first step is often the most important , difficult and feared one. You must remember if the first step is not taken then the journey will remain only a dream and will never be realised. However long the journey is, it only materialises with the first step you take, that indicates your resolve.

Taking the first step may not seem easy, but it is necessary to get closer to our dreams. True , It is not easy to begin a new thing, it takes courage and determination. But, if you focus on the first step and keep moving forward, you can achieve your goal. Haven’t we experienced it in Rotary’s Global Polio Eradication Initiative?

The key is to focus on single steps and not on the final goal, It all starts by taking that first step. One of the reasons many people cannot fulfil their dreams is that they give up at the very beginning. Either they are afraid to begin or feel they are incapable. When we take the first step, we are surrounded by uncertainties, so we may feel frightened, but as we move along, we start to feel confident and strong enough to overcome the challenges we may encounter.

We should not be afraid to take that much-needed step. If we want to achieve something great in life, we can take some time to prepare for it, but should not hold ourself back for too long. Until we take the first step, we will stay where we are in life.
ARE YOU READY TO TAKE THAT FIRST STEP??

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CONVERT WEAKNESSES INTO STREANTHS

*Happy Morning!*
All of us have our strengths and weaknesses. One of the very natural tendencies of human beings, is to project our strengths and downplay our weaknesses because we do not wish the world to see our limitations. So, the game we play is to justify them and make them appear as insignificant elements… and that surely takes up lot of our precious time and energy which does *NO GOOD* to us. The same time and energy can actually be and must be invested to overcome our weakness which would do wonders!
Identify your weaknesses, work on them by investing time trying to overcome them, know the areas that need improvement and do whatever it takes to vanquish them, Stay positive no matter what the circumstances are and *Go On *. By Going On You will have enough time and energy to convert your weaknesses into strength and *GROW!*

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HAVE A GRATEFUL LIVING

 It’s so important to spend some time each day in our busy life reflecting on things that fill you with gratitude. Even when times are tough, there is much to be grateful for. Gratitude is the greatest virtues in our life.


“Grateful living is important in the world because, in our constant pursuit of more and better, we can easily lose sight of the riches that lie right in front of us and within us” says Guri Mehta. Anyone who chooses to follow the path of grateful living will take note of everything that is already present in life, not taking anything for granted. When we try to live gratefully, we focus our attention on all those persons and things and opportunities that come on our way. Grateful living generates in us several other virtues such as respect, kindness, love , responsibility, appreciation, simplicity, humility, generosity and peace. 


When we try to live gratefully every day, it enriches our life, makes a vital difference in the lives of others and transforms the world. However, we need to admit the fact that living with gratitude is a really not that simple . Human as we are, when we go through many unforeseen, difficult and painful situations in life, it’s difficult for us to be grateful. However, if we try to maintain persistently and intentionally an attitude of gratitude, we’ll never have to regret about it. It will certainly lead us to greater peace , joy and happiness in our lives.


It is said that “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”
As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words but to live by them. 
Always remember that Gratitude will always shift you to a higher frequency, and you will attract much better things in life. Therefore , the more grateful you are the more beauty you will experience in life .

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Owning Mistakes is a Mark of Leadership…

There is no one in this world who doesn’t make mistakes… even best of the leaders have made mistakes. A good leader takes the responsibility while a bad leader starts looking for scapegoats on whom the blame can be transferred!

Admitting and taking responsibility for a mistake means a willingness to show human vulnerability and transparency – which cultivates a sense of trust, adds to your credibility as a leader and earns respect. “Typically, when leaders realize they’ve made a mistake, others have noticed, too.

Owning your mistake also provides an important sense of safety as a leader, and puts more validity behind your word.

The mantra is to take the mistake as an opportunity, draw out lessons from that, make corrections and recommence the journey.
Owning a real mistake is about owning a clearly bad judgment or decision as something you are capable of as a human, so you can acknowledge and learn from it. It’s about knowing you are big enough to admit an error, not making yourself smaller.

Possess positive attitude and a realistic mindset, do not add fuel to fire by exaggerating the mistake and commencing a blame game, take ownership of the mistake, learn from it, do not repeat the mistake and *Go On Going On.* You will reward yourself and your team with fresh direction, great hope and eventually achieve success. Learn to accept the mistakes and correct those for the betterment of yourself and your organization.

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PASSION & VISION

The Rotary Foundation solely depends upon Rotarians to turn its objectives to realities. We must demonstrate our passion for service and our visions of a strife-free world to turn this world into a liv-able, lovable and luminous place to enjoy.


Rotarians have the energy to turn our vision into reality. Mother Teresa has amply demonstrated what passion and commitment can achieve.
If we have the energy, we must be passionate for service. The ultimate goal of service is world peace. All our programmes of The Rotary Foundation aim at achieving a more peaceful globe.


Our multiple programmes of The Rotary Foundation – and the very important programme is polio eradication – aim at securing a happier world which can then ensure peace.


If peace is our objective and service acts are the roads leading to peace, we must ensure that we have funds to attain our objectives.
We need more funds. We have many opportunities. We need to join these two with a strong bond that can survive upheavals.


Rotarians have earned the respect of communities. Now if we have enough financial support, we can earn success. In order to succeed, we will need extra commitment, brighter visions and unwavering passions to utilize our financial resources to the maximum.


There is no doubt that we have that commitment, that passion and that vision. We therefore must provide more food for energy and this food is financial strength.

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SHARE THE GLORY, ACCEPT THE BLAME

When the team does well and is recognized, it’s the leader’s responsibility to spread the benefits around. A public pat on the back, a bonus from the top, a write-up in the club bulletin – whatever form that recognition takes, everyone should get a generous share of it.
People always appreciate being included in praise. It encourages them to give their greatest efforts and makes them want to work again with the leader who guided them to this success. And this kind of graciousness has one another benefit: in the end the leader gets a big share of the credit anyway. 
When it comes to criticism, be a smart leader and take exactly the opposite approach. Don’t point the finger at others. Never raise public complaints about the “weak link” in the chain. Step forward and accept whatever complains arrive. Then speak privately with the team members about how the results might be improved, and turn their attention to doing better next time.
Always remember the saying “A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame, a little less than his share of the credit.

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BE SUCCESSFUL, BE HONEST, BE HUMBLE

Success in the long run is always related to our truthfulness. Another quality  that is needed when you become successful is humility. Humility is a powerful quality which can make a person a visionary and a respected human being for generations to come.

No one likes arrogant persons. People tend to remain away from such
self-centered individuals instead of coming close and providing support to them. Arrogant people have fallen and have been crushed into the dust, as history has shown us time and again.

Egoistic people are the most unhappy people inside. They are always trying to dominate other people with all that they have. Tools like – I look good, I am intelligent, I am rich, I am smart, I have a beautiful personality, I am an achiever, the list is endless.

Apart from humility, your honesty and truthfulness also make you successful. Some people reach big milestones in their life, but if they have lied or indulged in dishonesty of some type or the other while reaching there they will soon be exposed and will fall from the grace of those around them. When they fall, there will be no one to shed a tear for them. Again, history in every organisation has shown these stories many times.

Always remember Honesty is considered the best tool of success in life. Without being honest in life, it becomes really difficult to make real and trustworthy friendships with anyone.

People who are generally used to telling truth can be able to build better relationships and thus a better world. So, being honest helps us a lot in many ways all through life. Honesty is the most effective tool for protecting relationships.

Saying truth always helps us to strengthen the character as well as bring confidence within us. Therefore, being honest is really being a good human being in life which certainly helps in achieving success .

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ALL HAVE PROBLEMS IN LIFE ..

Life is so complex that no one can escape from problems. The most important thing is how do we stay hopeful when we feel we are in the dark phase of life or we are deeply surrounded by problems.

The dark phase of life is the time when life challenges us to the core, and we feel as if sky has fallen into our life or it is an end to everything. As we think there is no way out, our hope begins to fall.

Everyone experiences such a phase in life . We all have the strength to get through it; we just have to stay hopeful and firmly believe we will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Reassure yourself that, like always, the difficult time will end this time too. Problems in life occur only because we act without thinking or  we just keep thinking without taking any action.

Sometimes, life will look blurry. Along the way in the journey of life, sometimes, life will be colder than warmer and sometimes warmer than colder but in all things we must remember that it is never over for a purposeful journey of life until the journey of life is over.

Be it rough or smooth, good or bad, we must accomplish the task. It shall always not be good and it shall always not be bad; we only have to work hard.

It is said “when life makes you sad; and it’s the worst you’ve ever had. Remember – life also gives its best lessons, When your time is terribly bad.”

Although it may seem never-ending, but no situation in life lasts forever. Pray, meditate, speak to trustworthy people, and try to find what you can do to help yourself. Reassure yourself that, like always, the difficult time will end this time too.

Love Yourself Enjoy Every Movement Of Life…Life Is Beautiful….

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BE SUCCESSFUL WITH HONESTY AND HUMILITY…

Success at every step is always related to our humility and truthfulness . Even though many people may think of humility as becoming weak, unworthy, and valueless . But real humility is a powerful soul force, which when unleashed, can bring a person into a place of purpose, vision, power and wealth.

Humility is the biggest virtue of all. Anger and ego are humility’s biggest enemies and spoil the way people see us and feel about us in their hearts.

No one likes arrogant people and people tend to remain away from such people instead of coming close and providing support to them. They not only loose blessings and respect but they also loose self-respect.

Egoistic people are the most unhappy people inside and are always trying to dominate people with all that they achieve as their tools to do that. Tools like – I look good, I am intelligent, I am rich, I am smart, I have a beautiful personality, I am an achiever, My relationships are beautiful …

Also, apart from humility, your honesty and truthfulness also make you successful. Some people reach big milestones in their life, but they have lied or indulged in dishonesty of some type or the other while reaching there, which is false success.

Always remember Honesty is considered the best tool of success in life and is considered to be a foundation of a successful relationship. Without being honest in life, it becomes really difficult to make real and trustworthy friendships with anyone.

People who are generally used to telling truth can be able to build better relationships and thus a better world. So, being honest helps us a lot in many ways all through life. Honesty is the most effective tool for protecting relationships. Telling lies just to save the situation can make the condition even worse. Saying truth always helps us to strengthen the character as well as bring confidence within us. Therefore being honest is really being a good human being in life which certainly helps in achieving success .

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ENJOY SUCCESS AND BE HAPPY…

success means increasing one’s overall quality of life and get maximum satisfaction of one’s achievements.. Many a times we buy an expensive car or have an expensive holidays and feel proud when we come in front of others with such an accomplishment. 
Sometimes this pride even gives a wrong message. 


Most people today define success with material assets and feel big homes and rich jewellery worn is success. But have we ever looked within and talked to ourselves that where are we heading? All this is important  but it is high time we not let these comforts define our lives. Buy the expensive mobile phone if you want, but not for people to see, because that is not success. The desire to have more takes you on wrong path. That’s where you go wrong and realize that success is incomplete without contentment, and that could have been there, even before the dream was achieved. What is the use if you work all your life for these dreams but never feel satisfied after achieving them? So, enjoy success in the journey, enjoy the nice people you meet, enjoy the beautiful things and different scenes of life, enjoy nature, enjoy the food you like most , enjoy God and enjoy just being yourself – always be happy.

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LET’S VALUE WHAT WE HAVE…

Values help us live with direction and purpose – like a guiding compass. Whatever is going on in our lives, our values can show us a path forward, and help us make better choices. Values are also intimately linked to our sense of self, and they’re essential for our mental health.


But values do so much more. They help grow and develop as people. They motivate us, give us a reason to get up in the morning, and give our lives meaning. Values help us live with direction and purpose – like a guiding compass. Whatever is going on in our lives, our values can show us a path forward, and help us make better choices.


One of the reasons why most of us feel a lack in our lives is a lack of contentment. In the want for more, we often overlook what we have already gained. We accomplish what we want, but our desires do not  end. To achieve more, we become less available to those who mean to us the most, our own health and well-being gets neglected, and we become lost in the race of life.


We need  to grow, but we also need to maintain a balance and this balance can only be achieved once you learn to be satisfied with your achievements.


Love Yourself . Enjoy Every Movement Of Life…Life Is Beautiful.

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SUCCESS NEEDS CONFIDENCE AND ENTHUSIASM ….

Success is the direct result of taking the right actions, the right way, at the right time for the right reasons.


Our success  is never related to our past failures but it is our willingness to move forward and take the right actions based on our past experience. The basic principle for success is to have confidence added with zeal and enthusiasm.


Let’s remain committed to achieve whatever it takes until we reach the goal.


There is no dream too big to be achieved.
There is nothing impossible if we  commit.


It’s in us and only we  can make that dream possible.

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STAY POSITIVE WHEN OTHERS AREN’T

No matter how positive we may choose to be, we’re always going to encounter others who pessimistic.Thankfully there are ways and means through which we can certainly overcome their negativity or redirect it in a way that helps them become more positive as well.


Here are few suggestions


You may not be the leader of your organization . You may not be driving the “big bus,” but you can decide to make your bus greater than what you have .
Every day just focus on being the best you can be and bring out the best in others while tuning out everything else. Tune out the negativity. Tune out the damaging comments. Tune out anything you can’t control. You can’t drive anyone else’s bus. Just drive your bus and make it a great ride.


It is said that 80 percent of the population vibrates to a negative frequency.The fact is negativity is all around us. It’s not just  pessimistic people around you but It’s everywhere. You must remember that your positive energy must be greater than all the negativity. As it is always suggested “Never wrestle with a pig because you’ll both get dirty and the pig likes it.”  Instead, stay above the fray. Positive energy is much more powerful than negative energy. If you stay positive, the negativity can’t touch you.


When you plant yourself where you are, with a desire to serve and make a difference, you will create very positive conditions for your growth. You’ll be surprised at how others start treating you more positively when you approach your work with a service mindset. They will sense something different in you and they will change the way they behaved towards you. 


Give all the pessimistic people around you a book on positive leadership. There are many great books out there.  Best of all, this change in leadership spreads throughout the organization. So don’t think you can’t change your situation or organization. You can. I’m convinced that very few people want to be negative. Most people are negative because of stress, busyness, and fear. Most people just need a wake-up call to break out of their rut. This is your opportunity to help someone else break free. Decide to be a beacon of light that shines on others. You’ll be amazed at what happens as a result.


If all else fails you have a choice. You can decide to stay positive and outlast pessimistic  knowing that truth shines through and eventually pessimistic people won’t last . 


Whatever you do, however, don’t allow a pessimistic to get you down. With 80 percent of the population being negative, we need positive powerful people like you to offset the negativity. So keep staying positive!

Ashok Mahajan
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IF SOMEONE IS….

falling behind in life, you don’t have to
remind them. Believe you me, they already know.
If someone is unhealthy, they know. 
If someone is struggling in their relationships, with money, with self-image, with their job , they know. 
It’s what consumes their thoughts each day. 
What you need to do for those who are struggling is not to reprimand, but encourage , inspire and support. 
Tell them what’s good about their lives, show them the potential that you see and  guide them to get rid of their issues.
Love them where they are. 
When we can’t see clearly for ourselves, we need others to speak greatness over us. 
People don’t need you to tell them what’s wrong with their lives, they already know. They need you to reassure them that they can still make it right.
They need to have confidence that you will stand with them .

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SMILE AND CONNECT WITH PEOPLE

Everyone wants to remain happy. Being happy represents the state of our mind and our interest for life. People who show eagerness and interest in life always attract others because it makes even them feel light-hearted.


In this complex world all have some problems in life that makes their heart heavy . When someone creates an atmosphere of humour with his or her action, words or just a smiling face, it is very well received. It helps people temporarily forget their disappointments in life, brings hope, uplifts them and make them feel happy.


A simple smile can bring out all the positive emotions in you. Relatively, it helps you build better and stronger relationships with the people around you. Most important, it makes you feel good, regardless of your current mood, as it highlights the natural feeling of joy.


Always try to keep your smile on. You will not only be able to spread happiness but also create some great connections.

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STAY POSITIVE

No matter how positive we may choose to be, we’re always going to encounter others who are pessimistic. Thankfully there are ways through which we can certainly overcome their negativity and redirect it in a way that helps them become more positive.


You may not be the leader of your organization . You may not be driving the “big bus,” but you can decide to make your bus a nice vehicle to travel. Every day just focus on being the best you can be and bring out the best in others while shutting out everything else. 


It is said that 80% of the population have negative thoughts. The fact is negativity is all around us. It’s not just  pessimistic people around you, but It’s everywhere. You must remember that your positive energy must be greater than all the negativity. As it is always suggested “Never wrestle with a pig because you’ll get dirty and the pig likes it.”  Instead, stay away from things that can pull you down. Positive energy is much more powerful than negative energy. 


When you plant yourself where you are, with a desire to serve and make a difference, you will create very positive conditions for your growth. You’ll be surprised at how others start treating you more positively when you approach your work with a service mindset. They will sense something different in you and they will change the way they behaved towards you.


Give all the pessimistic people around you a lesson on positivity through your actions. Don’t think you can’t change those around you to be better. You can. I’m convinced that very few people want to be negative. Most people are negative because of stress and fear. Most people just need a wake-up call to break out of their rut. This is your opportunity to help someone else break free. Decide to be a beacon of light that shines on others. You’ll be amazed at what happens as a result.


If everything else fails you have a choice. You can decide to stay positive and outlive the negativity around you by knowing that light will always come out and shine through and drive out the darkness. So, keep staying positive!

Ashok Mahajan
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DIFFICULT TIMES BRING OUT OUR REAL STRENGTH !! 

We all have unlimited potential, but most of it remains unexplored. When we face challenging situations in life requiring more strength, we find we are stronger than we thought of ourselves.


There are times when we feel pushed beyond our capacity to handle things. We cry, curl and fold in sadness and are on the brink of breaking down. Then the survival spirit within us gives us an unknown strength to rise again, face the challenges and overcome them. 


You have that spirit and the strength within you. You are unlimited; just explore yourself and don’t give up on yourself. 


Ask yourself how realistic your worry is. Our imaginations can take us into situations that may never develop . Set aside  worry and Focus on the good aspects of your life. Look at tough times as an opportunity to learn, grow or improve your situation.
Yes . It may sound strange, but many great individuals have exhibited their greatness just by setbacks.” — 
Love Yourself  and Enjoy Every Movement Of Life…
Life Is beautiful!!

Ashok Mahajan
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GET RID OF IMPOSSIBLE !! 

“Impossible” – the word itself has so much of negativity and lethargy that it has killed many dreams and ambitions of many people. Many a times we lie ourselves that something is “impossible “to achieve as it’s very hard ! How many “impossible “ things in our life are really “impossible” ? 


We all have hundreds of excuses to make as to why we can’t do something worthwhile in our lives. If we can make excuses that take away a lot of energy and time , why don’t we make up excuses that inspire and enthuse us to do what we want to do ? Instead of giving ourselves reasons why can’t we  , give ourselves reasons why we can . If there is another human who can do what we think impossible, then definitely possible for us too. 


The ideas and inventions that were created in last 50/60 years seemed crazy when they were first attempted. Now we daily use them and can not imagine life without them .


The tale of great people and amazing discoveries let slip the truth that whatever a human being can conceive he/she can achieve. Your task is not to ponder how to make the things happen, rather to simply ask “why not” ? 
Start by doing what’s necessary; then do what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.


Remember what Napoleon Bonaparte said “Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools.”


“PURSUE THE IMPOSSIBLE“ FOR NOTHING IS “IMPOSSIBLE”

Ashok Mahajan
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WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT…..

Life isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about having many friends. It’s not about number of phone calls you receive every day. It’s not about your family or your bank balance. It’s not about the number of cards you are holding. It’s not about your face beauty. It’s not about the colour of your skin . It’s not about the brands of clothes you wear . It’s not about your smartness. It’s not about the size of house you own . It’s not about the vehicle you have . It’s not about your travel in business or economy. 

But life is about whom you love and whom you hate & hurt . it’s about whom you make purposely happy or unhappy. It’s about keeping or betraying trust. It’s about friendship , used as sanctity , or as a weapon. It’s about what you say and mean , may be hurtful, may be heartening. About starting rumours and contributing to petty gossip. It’s about what judgement you pass and why . It’s about whom you have ignored with full control and intention . It’s about jealousy, fear , pain , ignorance and revenge. It’s about carrying inner hate and love , letting it grow and spreading it . 


But most of all , it’s about using your life to touch or poison other people’s heart in such a way that could have never occurred alone . Only you choose the way these hearts are affected and those choices are what life is all about.
May you have a wonderful life …

Ashok Mahajan
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HOPE – HOPE AND HOPE

If you wish to carry one thing throughout your entire life, let it be Hope . It’s the Hope that makes you feel that better things are always ahead. It is Hope that makes you feel that you can get through even the toughest of times. It is the Hope that gives you strength to overcome any challenge that comes your way. It is the Hope that makes you understand where you are meant to be right now, and that you are on the path to where you are meant to be..

Because during easy or difficult times, Hope will be the very thing that carries you through. Always remember Hope is being able to make you feel that there is light at the end of the tunnel despite all of the darkness. It will also make you realise that there was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or your goal. Let your Hope not become your hurts, but shape your future. think it’s a mistake to ever look for hope outside of one’s self. It’s all within you .

“You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world’s problems at once but don’t ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own.” Says Michelle Obama ..

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“GRIT”- A SIMPLE FORMULA OF SUCCESS 

Grit is the number-one factor of success. It’s not talent, title, wealth, or appearance. It’s grit, the ability to work hard for a long period of time towards a goal; to persevere, overcome, and keep moving forward in the face of adversity, failure, rejection, and obstacles.

 Success doesn’t happen overnight. Along the way a true  leader will face countless challenges and will need Grit to find a way forward!

 If you don’t love it, you’ll never be great at it. If you don’t love it, you won’t work to overcome all the challenges to keep doing it. If you love what you do, you won’t quit when the world says you should. You will continue to show up every day, do the work, and discover that success created by the love you have inside you.

If you have a vision for what you want and you know why you want it, you will work hard and persevere in order to achieve it. Your vision and purpose are greater than your circumstances and challenges. When you know your why and you know the way   you won’t let obstacles get in the way. You will convert every obstacle into stepping stone.

When you believe in a brighter and better future you will continue to take the actions necessary to create it. What you believe determines what you create. If you believe it’s possible, you will continue to work to make it happen. 

There will be times when your failures and challenges bring you down. There will be moments you want to give up. It’s during these discouraging times that you need more than positive thinking. You need faith and hope to keep you going. Faith keeps you focused on possibilities instead of problems. Hope keeps you moving towards the future instead of living in the past. 

When you get knocked down your resilience will move you to get back up. You will keep fighting for what you love, what you believe in, what you hope for and what you want. Even when your dream is killed a thousand times, you will keep reviving it and try one more time.

The fear of failure is not a discouraging kind of fear but a motivational dose of fear that will make you to work harder. Combine this with a desire to prove yourself that you can do it and you’ll keep working to improve in order to reach your goal. All the great leaders , no matter how much success they have, still had a healthy dose of fear of failure and desire to prove themselves . It’s what keeps you humble and keeps you working to be great.

Grit is that ‘extra something’ that separates the most successful people from the rest. It’s the passion, perseverance, and stamina that we must channel in order to stick with our dreams until they become a reality. Grit is living life like it’s a marathon, not a sprint.

Ashok Mahajan
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BE A SIGNIFICANT PERSON ! 

Have you ever observed that it only takes a spark to light a fire , and soon all those around are warmed up in its flame ? If so , how much good you can do to others by living a significant life . 

A life of significance requires nothing external. You can be significant with or without material landmarks . A life of significance is far more concerned with what you give to others, than what you gather for yourself. People may forget what you say and do to them , but they will always remember how you made them feel. Your true significance calls for an answer “Am I making a difference in the lives of others “. 

Remember that it does not take more than a spark in you that can inspire hundreds and thousands to face the challenging world with enthusiasm, hope and courage. It’s always good to make a conscious effort to inspire the people around you. if your words and actions inspire others to dream more , learn more , do more and become better person, you are not less than any great and significant people in the history.

“I expect to pass through this world but once , any good thing therefore that I can do to any fellow creature, let me do it now , let me not neglect it , for I shall not pass this way again “ let this be your motto in your life .

May your life spark be tiny glimpses of a larger flame .

Ashok Mahajan
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REFLECTIONS ON ROTARY’S FUTURE 

At a time when membership in voluntary service organisation is under threat worldwide, what gives me hope is the promise and potential of the next generation of leaders.

These young people are deeply engaged in revitalizing the institutions that support a healthy democratic service opportunity and modeling the values that have always defined Rotary at our best. That’s why I am requesting all Rotarians to invest very much in young leaders.  I am excited to see Rotary Leaders around the globe convening forums that are focused on the ideas that are essential to our growth. This is what makes us great.

Your journey towards greatness begins when you humbly accept your weaknesses and try to improve upon them to convert your weaknesses into your strength. Humility is the prime quality that makes you great. True greatness makes you humble.

We must explore a range of issues, from strengthening our institutions and fighting disinformation, to promoting inclusive leadership and expanding pluralism that will shape Rotary for generations to come. We must showcase Rotary in action around the world and approaches that are working. We must discuss and debate ideas for how we can adapt our organisation for a new age. 

We hope that such a debate will  give everyone who believes in service the confidence that they can help make Rotary stronger. Because if we want Rotary to flourish, we will have to fight for it, we will have to nurture it, and we will have to demonstrate its value, again and again.

Every great action is always taxing when it is undertaken and every great venture is daunting when embarked upon. Your greatness gets reflected when you make use of all the opportunities and resources available. To achieve greatness, you must put extra efforts in doing ordinary things in an extraordinary manner.

Great people don’t spend their lives in doing small things but they spend their lives for doing something great, something that outlasts their own life. Rotary is such a great organisation which expects great things to happen to make the community know the importance of this fine organisation which is involved in the noble act of service.

Once we realise that the way we exist right now is not enough, that there is something more, your journey towards greatness has already begun.

Service through Rotary has immeasurable transformative power. Selfless service aligns your entire system so that your body, mind, emotions and energies function in harmony. This, in turn, establishes a chemistry of blissfulness within you and empowers you to create your life the way you want it. 

Ashok Mahajan
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COMMUNICATE TO DEVELOP COMMUNITY

Communication, communing, communion and community are essential tools for health, happiness, relationships, families and life. Our existence was never meant to live in isolation and alone. We were made for intimacy, friendship, connection and relationships. We are meant to grow and thrive in community. 

So as you think about your family, friends, and your near and dear think about how you can communicate in such a way that builds community. Communicate to connect and unite, not divide, and connect in such a way that you build a community that supports and nourishes each other, making each individual feel more whole and the collective whole stronger. 

With effective , honest and improved communication we communicate “with” each other, enhance our relationships and build stronger, “united” families ,communities and nations “together.”

Let’s communicate and Build a Stronger, More United and Connected Communities.

Ashok Mahajan
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SMT. RAJASHREE BIRLA BOOSTS ROTARY’S PUSH TO END POLIO WITH HER RECENT U S $ ONE MILLION GIFT

Philanthropist and businesswoman Rajashree ji , through her group, Aditya Birla Group, has just in the past made yet another gift of USS1 million to Rotary to help eradicate polio.

The gift brings her total contributions to the Rotary’s  effort to more than US $16 Million .

This gift will be matched two-for-one by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, resulting in $3 million in new funding for the Global Polio Eradication Initiative (GPEI). Rotary is a leading partner in the GPEI, especially in advocating government and donor support, fundraising, and building awareness.

RajashreeJi’s generous gift is deeply appreciated and could not have come at a more opportune time in our fight to end polio once and for all. Her generosity no doubt will inspire other private donors to step up and help Rotary take full advantage of our innovative partnership with the Gates Foundation.

Birla’s gift underscores India’s commitment to remain polio free. India –which some experts believed would be the last nation to beat polio – hasn’t recorded a case of the disease since January 2011.

“Now we owe it to humanity to see that Afghanistan, and Pakistan also become polio free in near future,” says RajashreeJi.

LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST

Life is a mystery that unfolds gradually. There are times we are confused and puzzled. All the same there are also definite moments of brightness and enlightenment. The mystery of life cannot be fully understood in isolation. Hence each of us needs to be assisted by those around us to understand and appreciate the mystery of life .

Living your life to the fullest doesn’t mean to be reckless, insanely courageous, or on the edge of existing.

Endowed with unique features and talents every one of us has a definite role to play in the lives of others. Each of us definitely make a difference in the world with our uniqueness. Comparisons and unhealthy competition may fill people with the feelings of worthlessness. But all the same when we rise above these unhealthy traits one will be able to recognise one’s own uniqueness and the distinct role that he/she can play in the lives of people around.

Life gives us a lot of opportunities to be the change that we want to be in our lives . The problem is that these opportunities are often disguised. Many miss the opportunity to be good friend just because he/she has failed to notice a drop of tear in the eyes of another or has failed to give a nod of appreciation when the other needed it most. These things do make a difference in the lives of others. Act as if these things make a difference. They do . 

Life is a one time gift. Use it in the best possible manner. So love, laugh, live, be yourself, be happy and have trust in those who love you most .

MAXIMISE YOUR POTENTIAL

You only live when you fulfil your purpose in life and you only live when you achieve greatness. Anything short of that is simply a wasted life, an unproductive life, and a dead life.

Great people are the ones who have maximised their potential by their sheer hard work and dedication. They were not born with a silver or golden  spoon in their mouth but transformed the world by their humongous contribution. They could make lasting contribution to the lives of others because they were willing to put in hours of toil transforming their dreams into realities.

you have the potential to keep building on your progress. Never stop challenging your limits so that you will never cease the process of laying the foundation for your best self. 

Even if you’ve already achieved some of your goals, you can always challenge yourself to do more and better. Believe strongly that the best

is yet to come. Have a complete detour

in your life to maximise your potential, because fully actualise individuals are needed for a transformed world.

You only live when you maximise your potentials, you only live when you fulfil your purpose and you only live when you achieve greatness. Anything short of that is simply a wasted life, an unproductive life, and a dead life.

Start maximising what you have, instead of worrying what you don’t have.

9 Things The Best in Business and Other organisations Do

I’ve been very fortunate over the last five decades to work with many of the best leaders and organizations in business, service. and education. I’ve found that the best in these different fields implement the same principle.

They have clarity that drives their actions. When you are on a mission with a vision you won’t give up when faced with challenges. It’s essential that everyone in the organization is clear on the vision and mission and knows how they can contribute to it.

Their Culture drives expectations and beliefs. Expectation and beliefs drive behaviors. Behaviors drive habits. Habits create the future. If you want the fruit you must invest in the root. Culture is the root. Culture creates sustained success.

They do ordinary things better than everyone else. Success is all about the fundamentals. 

They are mentally stronger. Through  adversity their belief is greater than their circumstance. They take the actions necessary to create positive results.

They overcome their fear of failure. Everyone has fear but the best thing is to overcome it. They don’t allow it to control, limit or paralyse them from taking action. The greatest success strategy is to focus on the love of what you are doing instead of fearing the outcome.

They  build great relationships and teams. No one creates success alone. We all need a team to accomplish something great. The best leaders and team utilise the 4 Cs . They communicate, connect, commit and care.

They transform negativity . They feed positive and weed the negative. One person can’t make a team but one person can break a team.

They think like rookies and overcome the curse of experience. They don’t expect a bad outcome because it happened before. They don’t long for the good ole days. They work hard, believe anything is possible and create the good old days right now. They innovate, adapt and turn challenges into growth opportunities.

They  care more. In a world where most don’t care those who care stand out and perform better. They put more time and energy into their product, design, service, and/or craft. 

Let’s make the organisation we represent as one of the best and enjoy its positive results.

TRY TO BE KINDER

Kindness is an interior disposition that makes a person place others before self. It is not a fancy luxury we allow ourselves to have but a fundamental responsibility as humans. In a world torn apart due to conflicts of various nature and intensity, an act of kindness that you can show to others can make a world of difference because there is no tranquilizer in the world more effective than a few kind words and deeds. You may not be able to make a difference to the whole world in your lifetime; but an act of kindness can definitely make a difference to the person it is shown.

One of the strange things about kindness is that it compels the beneficiary to show forth kindness in his/her life!  Its true that Nothing multiplies so much as kindness, Therefore, it is up to you to make a decision that no one ever comes to you without getting away better and happier. Always remember that the best portion of a good life is little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.Be kinder and make the world a better place to live in.

LEADERSHIP MAKES A DIFFERENCE

Marathon runners are rugged athletes. But usually they are not leaders; they compete alone. 

Leadership is a team work . It means getting everyone involved in reaching the goal. 

Leaders do more than direct individuals. They build a team. They gather the separate strengths and abilities of individuals and incorporate them into a working unit. 

Leaders have both personal goals and the organisational goals. They strive to excel individually, but their greatest delight is helping the whole team achieve. 

Leaders understand the importance of good communication. They know that the purpose of the team is mere paper until the team members objectify  it. They know that without the team members’ interaction, communication  the work will be disjointed and the team mates will be divided. 

Leaders build morale and create community. They keep the mood positive. They never discourage the teammates. They complement and praise individual and team efforts. They celebrate victories and share setbacks. Good leaders take a little more than their share of the blame, a little less than their share of the credit. They recognize outstanding achievements because they know that propelling one of the team members forward will push the rest of the team to achieve more.

A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say we did it ourselves. 

Leadership is 1% of leader and 99% of team work .

Ashok Mahajan

Director, Rotary international (2007-09) 

Trustee, The Rotary Foundation (2009-13) 

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HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY

Rotary claims to stand upright for HONESTY. Do we? It is ironic that in the age of great advances, we are traveling the other way as far as ETHICS are concerned. No development can survive if HONESTY starts disappearing. Rotary works for PEACE and PEACE is at stake as we tend to overlook HONESTY. Why is it so difficult ? Because HONESTY begins with us. ETHICS depend on us. Individuals can only promise ETHICS. There is no path to HONESTY. HONESTY is the path.

“Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don’t expect it from cheap people.” Warren Buffett

Ashok Mahajan 

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SURROUND YOURSELF WITH AMBITIOUS PEOPLE AMENDED

To achieve some thing extraordinary you have to have the company of right people . Surround yourself with ambitious people When you surround yourself with ambitious people, you may feel more inspired to be motivated yourself. Seek support by finding a mentor. When choosing a mentor, find someone who is where you want to be. They can help you start working toward this place. Surrounding with mediocre or mean minded people will never allow you to get where you wish to be . They will always there to misguide and discourage you .
Always remember an average person with average talents and ambition and average education, can outstrip the most brilliant genius in our society, if that person has clear, focused goal .
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO: Empower you Believe in you Support you Uplift you Motivate you Appreciate you

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HOPE IS THE LAST THING EVER LOST

Being hopeful means that you believe there will be an end to your adversity, and you will see better days. 

Sometimes we face difficulty in many fronts  of our life. These challenging times in life can be very distressing, and that too if they are coupled with huge losses. It may appear as an end of everything, but we must remember everything that begins also ends. We must never give up hope. 

You must remember that you are not here merely to make a living, you are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget the errand.

If you are feeling hopeless, hold on to your faith and don’t lose trust in life. Try your best to do what you can and if you don’t feel things are under your control, just wait for the new season, it may take time, but will surely come. There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope .

Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future. 

Love Yourself 

Enjoy Every Movement Of Life…

Life Is Beautiful.

Ashok Mahajan 

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BE MORE AMBITIOUS THAN YOUR POTENTIAL

To achieve some thing extraordinary you have to have the company of right people . Surround yourself with ambitious people. When you surround yourself with ambitious people, you may feel more inspired to be motivated yourself. Seek support by finding a mentor. When choosing a mentor, find someone who is where you want to be. They can help you start working toward this place. Surrounding with mediocre or mean minded or failure people will never allow you to get where you wish to be . They will always there to misguide , discourage and disheartened you . 

Always remember an average person with average talents and ambition and average education, can outstrip the most brilliant genius in our society, if that person has clear, focused goal.

Ashok 

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A BIG THANK YOU ….

It is so easy to get caught in our busy lives. Life moves quickly with the seasons. it is on our birthdays that we get the time to pause and be thankful for the blessings and wishes we receive in our lives from friends . How could I achieve my desire to do all what I was able to do? You, my friends, helped me to unlock my full potential. Your friendship is valuable to me and when I started to count the blessings, my whole life turned around.  Thank you for your wonderful wishes on my birthday on July 23rd . I know that this thank you is never meant to be for one single day. I realise that the true measure of me saying thank you for your wishes is how I use it to lead a more purposeful and fulfilling life.

Regards.
Ashok.

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STAY POSITIVE

Always remember that Life is a gift, not an obligation.

Three things you control every day are your ATTITUDE, your EFFORT and your ACTIONS. It doesn’t matter what others are doing or who you think is being unfair. Every day you can focus on being positive, working hard and making others around you better.

SUCCESS is often measured by comparison to others. EXCELLENCE, on the other hand, is all about being the best we can be and maximizing our gifts, talents and abilities to perform at our highest potential. Pursue excellence today.

 Failure is not meant to define you. It’s meant to refine you to be all you are meant to be. Don’t let your failures be a part of your identity. Move forward and create your future.

Don’t let negativity win today. Remember it starts with you. If you are complaining you’re not leading. If you are leading you’re not complaining. One person can’t make a team but one person can break a team. Stay positive! No energy vampires allowed.

One person in pursuit of excellence raises the standards of everyone around them. And as they strive for greatness they bring out the greatness in others. Be that one person today.

If they praise you, show up and do the work. If they criticize you, show up and do the work. If no one even notices you, just show up and do the work. Just keep showing up, doing the work, and leading the way.

Where there is a void, Negativity will fill it. Fill the void with positive, proactive communication and you’ll help neutralize the negativity before it starts. This applies at home, at work and every relationship in your life.

Expect to Win Today. Champions expect success and their positive beliefs often lead to positive actions and outcomes. They win in their mind first.

Remember Your WHY! We don’t get burned out because of what we do. We get burned out because we forget why we do it.  

Let your unique awesomeness and positive energy inspire confidence in others.

Ashok Mahajan 

SMILE- SERVE- SACRIFICE-SATISFY 

DO YOU HAVE POSITIVE THINKERS IN YOUR TEAM ??

Who’s on your team ?

Are they fueling or draining you and your organisation?

Do they enhance the morale, energy and performance of your team or do they sabotage it?

Do they energize and attract people or make them want to run away?

As you build your culture and create your team you want to fill your team with leaders and transform, neutralize or remove the energy vampires.

This doesn’t mean you don’t care about people who are being negative.
It means you care enough to help a negative person become more positive.
It means you care about all the leaders on your team who are trying to do great work and don’t let negativity affect your culture and sabotage your mission.
It means you have people who provide a great experience for your team .

“We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves.” – Swami Vivekananda

Ashok Mahajan
SMILE- SERVE – SACRIFICE- Satisfy

A Spark of Kindness Starts a Fire of Love 

Kindness is the secret. My ideal language is my Guru’s language of kindness, most colloquial and yet most expressive. Kindness is often expressed through the thought  of the person. 

Kindness is an interior disposition that makes a person place other people before themselves. It is not a fancy luxury we allow ourselves to have but a fundamental responsibility as humans. 

In a world torn apart due to conflicts of various nature and intensity, an act of kindness that you can show to others can make a world of difference because there is no tranquilizer in the world more effective than a few kind words and deeds. You may not be able to make a difference to the whole world in your lifetime; but an act of kindness can definitely make a difference to the person it is shown.

“Nothing multiplies so much as kindness,” says John Ray, . Therefore, it is up to you to make a decision that no one ever comes to you without coming away better and happier. Always remember that the best portion of a good life is little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.

Strength is in goodness and in purity. You cannot believe in God until you know what kindness is. 

Rotary provides us hundreds of opportunities to serve and help others. Make use of your time in Rotary and be kind to all you touch.  Shower your love to mankind and make the world know we believe in Service Above Self.

I recollect the poem by Lord Tennyson. To adapt the verse in this script I should say that being kind to others is a necessity. “Ours not to reason why, ours to do and die.” See yourself standing on the neck of the poor. Then you are not fit to be called men. As Swami Vivekananda said, “Money is not power, but goodness and kindness are. Practice and see how it works all over the world.”

BE GENEROUS  

A wise man who was travelling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day he met another traveller who was hungry, and approached the wise man to offer some food. The wise man opened his bag to share his food. The
hungry traveller saw the precious stone and requested the man to give it to him. He did so without hesitation. The traveller left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.


But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the wise man. “I’ve been thinking,” he said, “I know how valuable the stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone.” 
Always remember Your greatness is not what you have, it’s what you give. Be generous as Generosity, kindness, honesty, humor – makes us truly rich.

The Need for Regenerate 

Our mind, though unsteady by nature, has unlimited powers to transform our lives. But, those who don’t take care to be open, observe, listen, read, reflect,  question, challenge and fill it with positive thoughts, may hardly experience renewal in their lives. 
Likewise, human heart has infinite capacity to love everyone with an unconditional love. But, often people fill it with lots of bitterness and all kinds of vices. 
Human soul is meant to live in communion with the Supreme Being and experience regeneration. But, often many remain so pre-occupied with the things of this world, finding no time to get in touch with the Divine. On your part, are you looking forward to have regeneration in your life? Are you determined to pray for it and work for it?

GOD ONLY CAN PROTECT US IN THIS WORLD 

In this life, there are so many things to learn, so many things people say are important. Education is, of course, quite important. A doctor cannot operate if she doesn’t know where the organs are, or how to sew a wound back up again. A scientist cannot perform experiments unless he knows which chemicals to use, and how much of each. An architect cannot design a structure  without knowing what foundations and supports are necessary. However, in the big picture, these are not the lessons or the education that truly liberate us. It is not this knowledge that saves us from drowning in the ocean. Only the knowledge of God can do that. Only love for Him, devotion to Him, and a life-vest inflated by Him can protect us in the raging sea of this world.

CARE  MORE……….

Hard work is of course key to success But if you care more it always adds to your success.


When you care more, you will invest more energy, efforts,sweat, tears, and years mastering your craft.


When you care more you won’t allow distractions to get in the way of your improvement , growth and progress.


When you care more you’ll see yourself as an artist creating your masterpiece every day.


When you care more every thing matters and every one matters and you work harder, serve greater and love deeper……which leads to the next level of success.


Hence for achieving the best in you….WORK HARD AND CARE MORE.

Why Integrity Matters

The journey to Peace starts from you- your home, your community. If we start our journey in right earnest, we have the power to write the destiny of The Rotary Foundation.
 
Peace starts with happiness. Happiness feeds Peace. One may ask “What has Peace to do with Happiness? ” The connection is easy to understand. Our happiness gives us time to make others happy and happiness creates a frame of mind which can ponder over Peace. There can be no Peace without Happiness. If the communities are embroiled in stresses and strains of life, we have no time to devote to Peace. Happiness is but a deep sense of inner Peace and we can distribute happiness through our acts of service, we are likely to promote Peace. 


Happiness does not necessarily come from wealth. splendor or personal glory. Tranquility gives more happiness and tranquility is the seed that germinates into a beautiful flower of Peace. If the community is unhappy – mainly because of trials and tribulations they face – even God can not approach the community except in the form of some help that can solve a problem or two. In our daily life, we can smile and produce smiles on the faces of the less fortunate – not only we become happy but make others happy.  This is the basis of Peace. 


Our Vedas declare “Let there be Peace within and without and May that Peace remains with us forever” This is the most secular declaration of Peace and Happiness.

HAPPINESS & PEACE

The journey to Peace starts from you- your home, your community. If we start our journey in right earnest, we have the power to write the destiny of The Rotary Foundation.
 
Peace starts with happiness. Happiness feeds Peace. One may ask “What has Peace to do with Happiness? ” The connection is easy to understand. Our happiness gives us time to make others happy and happiness creates a frame of mind which can ponder over Peace. There can be no Peace without Happiness. If the communities are embroiled in stresses and strains of life, we have no time to devote to Peace. Happiness is but a deep sense of inner Peace and we can distribute happiness through our acts of service, we are likely to promote Peace. 


Happiness does not necessarily come from wealth. splendor or personal glory. Tranquility gives more happiness and tranquility is the seed that germinates into a beautiful flower of Peace. If the community is unhappy – mainly because of trials and tribulations they face – even God can not approach the community except in the form of some help that can solve a problem or two. In our daily life, we can smile and produce smiles on the faces of the less fortunate – not only we become happy but make others happy.  This is the basis of Peace. 


Our Vedas declare “Let there be Peace within and without and May that Peace remains with us forever” This is the most secular declaration of Peace and Happiness.

Life becomes brighter in good relationships 

A great relationship is irreplaceable — it can inspire you to grow into a better version of yourself. it is rare fortune to have someone in life who motivates you and makes you happy even when the odds are just against  . 
Honest relationship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s something that you learn through your daily experiences. . But if you haven’t learned the meaning of true relationships you really haven’t learned anything in life . 
Always avoid to have relationship with those individuals who are only comfortable to be with you but try to have relations with those  who will force you to lever yourself up and encourage you to do better in life .
Each such individuals represent a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this relationship that a new world is born.” — 
Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by such individuals you choose as part of your life . Be selective of your choice in relationships. It can make or mar your entire future. 

Make A Difference in the World!

“The World is theirs who value it!”
A British newspaper once asked its readers. “What is wrong with the world?” One of the letters it received was from the famous writer, G.K. Chesterton. His answer to the question was very short. It just said, “I am.” The world is dangerous not because of those who do harm but because of those who look at it without doing anything. Are you ready to make a real difference in the world around you? Am I …?
The power to make a difference lies within each one of us. If our faith is strong and constant, our effort to make a difference will be more than we ever thought possible. All we need to do is to act as if our desires were already realities. To make a difference does not mean making a big splash or doing something that makes people yell, “Wow!” Some people proudly call it “leaving a legacy”.
Making a difference is doing ordinary things differently, Are you willing to help a needy child overcome the obstacles of poverty through a sponsorship? 
Can you put aside your indifference as regards to those underprivileged and approach the HIV/AIDs
affected with a little more compassion? 
Do you have the goodwill to take people as they are, not as you would like them to be? 
Have you ever tried a little more to understand the thoughts and feelings of people around you?
Remember, to the world you may be just one person. Yet, to one person, you may be the world! Therefore, let your presence in the
world be one that radiates love, peace and happiness and in turn, let the world speak for you!

Living Through The Pandemic

Most of the time, we are thinking about life, not living life. We are not allowing the life energies to function to their fullest exuberance. Someone told you, “I think therefore I am.” Is that really true? It is only because you exist that you can generate a thought, isn’t it?


Your thought process has become so compulsive and your focus has shifted from your existence to your thought to such an extent that now you are beginning to believe that you exist because you think. Even without your silly thoughts, existence happens. 


What can you think, really? Just the nonsense that you have gathered and recycled. Can you think something other than what has been fed into your head? All you are doing is recycling old data. This recycling has become so important that people even dare to say “I think, therefore I am.” And that has become the world’s way of life.


Because you are, you can think. If you choose, you can fully be and still not think. The most beautiful moments in your life – moments of bliss, moments of joy, moments of ecstasy, moments of utter peace – were moments when you were not thinking about anything. You were just living. 


People who have been living happily through the pandemic did not think about what awaits them daily. They lived with gratitude that they were alive every moment and did not think about what worse could happen to them.
I know how hard and exhausting the last two years have been for most of us . We have lost loved ones, jobs and business was affected. Millions have experienced mental health challenges and are still struggling with finding their way forward.


It has been a very emotional and challenging time and yet when I ask many of our Rotarians if something positive came from the pandemic almost everyone said, “Yes.” While addressing my Rotary Club, I asked the members what they learned about themselves during the pandemic. A lady Rotarian  stood up and said, “I learned I was stronger than I thought. I was more resilient than I knew.” Many Rotarians shared how they adapted, innovated, reinvented, grew, and are now stronger because of the adversity they faced. Adversity is a university and it is a great teacher.


For me personally, I don’t know if I grew stronger. I would say I became more  loving, compassionate and focused on relationships more. I shed tears for the loss of my close friends many times. I realised that it was more important to be kind than to be correct while dealing with people, especially those working for you in your house or business. 


Speaking of love, the biggest positive take away from the pandemic was the time I spent with my family. Since I wasn’t traveling, like I usually do for many Rotary events in a year, I spent a lot of time discussing many things with my wife at home and realised that at every stage in your life, your spouse has more wisdom and energy to make you look ahead with confidence.
Human beings have invented millions of ways to suffer. For all this, the manufacturing unit is just in your mind. When you have risen above your mind, this is the end of suffering. When there is no fear of suffering, there is absolute freedom. Only when this happens, a man is free to experience life beyond his limitations. Pandemic taught me this and the strengthened family bondage made me step into 2022 with renewed vigour and to develop a clear space between me and my mind. I am now able to experience a completely different dimension of existence. 


You know, people who think too much about their own nonsense end up ignoring life around them. They are the people who don’t smile at anybody or even look at anybody in the world. They have no eyes to look at a flower, a sunset, a child or a smiling face – or if it is an unsmiling face, they have no inclination to make it smile; they have no such small duties or small cares in the world! They ignore all the life around them because they are all busy, solving the problems of existence. I realised that service through Rotary to those around us at such times gives me more happiness and we keep becoming true ‘Rotarians’ all over again.


The planet is spinning on time. Not a small event. All galaxies are going perfectly well, the whole cosmos is doing great. But you have one nasty little thought crawling through your head, and it is a bad day. So, stop thinking negatively and look at how beautiful your life is and how wonderful it is to live amongst people who are just like you.

Let’s move forward together!

The Positive from the Pandemic

I promise you, I’m not sugar coating this situation with the title of this communication.  I know how hard and exhausting the last two years have been for most of us . Many of us have lost loved ones and jobs, businesses and relationships. Many students feel they lost meaningful moments such as graduations ,  the joy of attending schools and colleges . Millions have experienced mental health challenges and are struggling with finding their way forward.
It has been a very emotional and challenging time and yet when I ask many of our Rotarians  if something positive came from the pandemic almost everyone says, YES.
The other day while addressing my home Rotary Club i asked the audience what they learned about themselves during the pandemic. A lady Rotarian  stood up and said, “I learned I was stronger than I thought. I was more resilient than I knew.” Many Rotarians shared how they adapted, innovated, reinvented, grew, and are now stronger because of the adversity they faced. Adversity is a university, and it is a great teacher and developer.
For me personally, I wouldn’t say I grew stronger. I would say I became more faithful, loving, compassionate and relationship focused. I cried several times for the loss of life of my close friends like PRID Yash Pal Das and PRIP Luis Giay…
Speaking of love, the biggest positive from the pandemic was the time I spent with my family  and since I wasn’t traveling like I usually am for many events a year, we spent a lot of time together at home, talking, growing and healing .
The most painful and challenging moment of our lives turned into a bond that we have never had before and despite all the pain from the pandemic I will be forever grateful for the relationship I now have with my family because of it. 
I’ve learned that we grow the most, not by living in the past, but in learning from it. We can’t go backwards. That’s a recipe for misery and despair. We must find the positive, take the lessons with us and move forward.
I know it’s easier said than done. I also know that forgiveness and healing are often a big part of the path forward. But it’s a process and a journey worth taking. Learn from the past. Heal in the present and create your future! Do this individually, with your family , your friends , your neighbours and your organisation. 
Let’s positively move forward together!

SERVE WITH LOVE

Service is of paramount importance to Rotarians. However, equally important, if not more, is compassion. Small steps of service suffused with compassion make Rotary an organisation of men and women steeped in love and tenderness. Acts of loving help have impressive manifestations of our tenderness and our desire to be present for others – to be available to others- makes Rotary an organisation acceptable, dependable and amenable. 
Loving kindness lights up the life of the needy and this gentle, glowing, non-flickering light expels some of the darkness that pervades the lives of the un-fortunates.
If we, therefore, approach service with kindness, love and sincerity, even failures will be accepted and not resented. When we succeed we produce reverence and gratitude. We don’t have to seek God for bestowing His grace. We can create it by our service acts. Our acts of service reverberate all around and spread by virtue of being connected with the needy.
A satisfied section of our community can echo its happiness to others around. We are recognized as custodians of the well being of the needy. We then, do not need any public relations. Our services become our public relations.
Remember, The life of a flower is short but well lived. it beautifies our garden. Let us live a life of value, a life of service , a life of giving ..Let us be a small flower in the garden of Gods creation & spread our inner beauty & fragrance to fill the world around us with joy and happiness.

Do What You Believe in …

Do What You Believe in …One of the reasons why you fail is because you pursue something which does not resonate with your deepest self. R I President( 1993-94), Robert Barth gave message to the Rotarians “Believe in what you do and do what you believe in.” If you  don’t believe in something , you’ll fail.  No other decision can have a greater impact on your life than deciding to do what you believe in . When you believe in  what you do, all the energy, focus, motivation, and discipline you’ll ever need to take action will be infinitely yours through the genuineness of your enthusiasm, passion , faith and drive. Doing what you believe in  will free you from the burden of having to do it, and you will devote more time and energy to it. You will never encounter such things as laziness or ‘not in a mood of doing it.
You are bound to produce far more quality results when you do what you believe in. Therefore, do not become the rabbit chasing the carrot – unless you want the chase to last your whole life. Instead, follow your heart and start doing what you believe in . Until you begin moving towards doing that which you actually believe in , nothing is going to feel right for you.
Don’t let others tell you what you should do. Don’t let the limitations of others limit your vision. If you do what you believe in you can achieve what you never thought possible. If you don’t give up on something you truly believe in, you will find a way.

Commitment is an Act not a Word

It’s true there is a correlation between the way people look at the things of this world and their relationships with others . If you think you’re moving and developing the idea that everything can be replaced, you will never ever  develop some strong and deep relationship . Such attitudes will certainly affect the overall quality of our individual lives and society at large .
Always remember that only deeper, high quality, durable ties can provide us with the kind of support we are always in need of,  like love, care, understanding, gratitude, Co operation, respect, etc. You need these very close ties to feel safe and secure and function properly.
 If social relationships  are seen as temporary there is every possibility that you are less likely to get what you need from your relationships, which can negatively affect your physical and mental health. Are you ready to live a life of commitment, to God, to your own self, to people around you? Are you truly committed to your career, to your organisation, and to the various resources at your disposal? Or, you wish to live a superficial life and just go on drifting, ‘getting and spending’, always looking for something new? The choice is yours! You need to decide! But always remember Commitment is an Act and not a Word .

ADD A CHAPTER TO WORLD PEACE

Peace starts with you – your family – your community and ultimately reaches the world. If Peace starts with us, individually, we can certainly take a step towards our goal and if this be so why do we not take that step today? Isn’t it sad that most families lack Peace in their household – in their families – in their businesses – in their communities?

We are all leaders and leadership is not a trend or an asset. It is a habit and we must use this habit of leadership to show the way towards our goal.

Service to the community should start with our families – but should not be limited to ourselves. We must promote love, respect, friendliness and happiness and spread these assets within the community we touch.

A hungry body, a sick body an illiterate body, a depressed body can never think of Peace, unless it is relieved of these impediments.

Here our service to the needy comes into focus. After achieving a comfortable level of some security, we can march together towards our objective. If we can maximize the happiness of others, we should be able to minimize unrest and strife.

This is one step towards Peace.

ASHOK MAHAJAN

TRUSTEE – THE ROTARY FOUNDATION (2009-13)

DIRECTOR – ROTARY INTERNATIONAL (2007-09)

SHARE OUR DREAMS WITH THE YOUTH 

Rotary has a never ending romance with the youth. For over four decades , Rotary has pledged its strength to serve the youth. Every Rotarian is an example to youth. Rotary expects Rotarians to work with youth rather to work for youth. I am reminded of the words of Daniel Webster, “If we work upon marble it will perish, if we work upon brass, time will efface it, if we rear temples, they will crumble in to dust, But if we work upon immortal young souls ,if we imbues them with high principles–the just fear of God and love of fellow men, then we engrave on these tablets something that will brighten all eternity. LET US  SHARE OUR DREAMS WITH THE YOUTH AND MAKE A BETTER WORLD.

Live in the Present to enjoy Life 

It’s true If we really live in the present moment, our worries and hardships will disappear and we will  experience  life with many miracles.Real life can only be found and touched in the present . It is because the present moment is the only moment we can actually influence. The past is over and the future has not yet arrived. Since the present moment is the only real moment for us, we can enjoy the wonders of life.Living in the present  is the key requirement for one’s own freedom. Unless we forget our problems, distress, regrets about the past or constant worries about the future we cannot be at peace . Therefore to enjoy life forget the past and remain in the present.

God My Saviour …

In our journey of life  we all have days where we don’t know how we will go on. Loved ones hurt us. Friends cheat us . Finances worry us. Sicknesses may overtake us. Our failure bothers us. We lose people we love most . The darkness surrounds us. But God is always there to guide us , to save us through difficult  times. We always have to Keep the faith and pray to Him.
God is our Father, our saviour, our protector, our ultimate who is always there to give us the most beautiful, the greatest, the most precious gift that we need to have in our lives.
My prayers to my Saviour, the ultimate, the God…When I am sick, Oh my God please touch me with your blessed hands and heal me.
When I feel sad, please comfort me and give me your unending Joy.
When I feel weak, give me the required strength..
When I am all alone please send your angels  to accompany me . 
When I feel downcast, please lift me with your gentle hands and show me the path of victory.
When I am in darkness,  show me your lights.
When I need love, give me your Heart.
When I am in financial difficulties please give me your Grace.
Oh God , my Saviour , for all my requests, for all my needs, answer me with your loving presence in my life . You are the only ultimate. You are the only who can show me the path and bring peace in my life .Yes my God in your absence I am all alone please lift me and bring happiness in my life .

HONESTY AND INTEGRITY

The high road is always respected. Honesty and integrity are always rewarded. When you are able to maintain your own highest standards of integrity – regardless of what others may do – you are destined for greatness. Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. Rotary claims to stand upright for HONESTY. Do we?  It is ironic that in the age of great advances, we are travelling the other way as far as ETHICS are concerned. No development can survive if HONESTY starts disappearing. Rotary works for PEACE and PEACE is at stake as we tend to overlook HONESTY. Why is it so difficult?  Because HONESTY begins with us. ETHICS depend on us. Individuals can only promise ETHICS. There is no path to HONESTY. HONESTY is the path.

Ashok Mahajan
Director, Rotary International (2007-09)
Trustee, The Rotary Foundation (2009-13)
 SMILE-SERVE-SACRIFICE-SATISFY

Light up the World

Diwali, known as the Festival of Lights, is one of the most prominent festivals in our country.The term ‘Diwali’ has derived from the Sanskrit word ‘Deepavali’ which means “row of lights’. It is celebrated by more than a billion people, going beyond the limits of religion, caste, class, creed, language, etc. 
During Diwali people take delight in placing brightly burning clay lamps outside their homes. The whole atmosphere is filled with light and glow, making it a truly delightful sight to behold. It is also marked by various other festivities, fireworks, prayers, family gatherings, visits to friends and families, works of charity, etc.
Diwali is so popular not only because of these external factors but also because it symbolizes the victory of good over evil, of light over darkness, of knowledge over ignorance. It is considered also as a cleansing ritual, getting rid of all worries, fears, anxieties, troubles, etc. 
Diwali fills the lives of human beings with love, peace, hope, freedom, friendliness, unity, kindness, purity and joy. Most likely, it began as a harvest festival even though there are many legends pointing to the origins of Diwali. It is also a common practice during Diwali to forgive and forget all past injustices and grudges, with a rejuvenated mind and spirit.
Diwali is also a festival that brings together people from different walks of life, to celebrate life and prosperity. It invites human beings to go ahead with renewed zeal and strength in working for the welfare of the whole human race. Above all, it reminds us of our duty to light up the world. Buddha is called ‘the Light of Asia’ because he was a truly enlightened person whoselife lighted up the lives of billions of human beings. As we celebrate Diwali let us resolve to live enlightened livesso that we may be able to light up the lives of the people with whom we live. 

LET ROTARY CLUBS CREATE POSITIVE SCHOOLS TO CREATE A POSITIVE FUTURE

One of the best ways to shape the future is to shape the mind of a child . Children with Positive attitude are more likely to become positive adults and that’s why Rotary Clubs are so passionate about helping schools create and sustain a positive school culture that creates positive results.  It’s critical now more than ever that we the Rotarians inspire and equip principals, teachers , staff and students with the rules and tools to neutralize negativity, overcome challenges, and create a positive culture that fosters unity and strength while boosting teacher efficacy and morale. Let every Rotary Clubs  take up projects to increase the positivity amongst the children and help in developing a strong nation.

DOING GOOD IN THE WORLD

I have learnt simple lessons and have strived to live a simple life.My life of almost 50 years in Rotary has put me across to people who have taught me to look beyond  myself and I have been blessed to be associated with visionaries who have a true purpose ,a calling,higher than just trying to fill up their savings in the bank. I know how they feel and with their guidance I have tried to climb above conflict and the pursuit of material success. Now I know the true meaning of *SERVICE ABOVE SELF* and the true satisfaction in *DOING GOOD IN THE WORLD…*I WISH ALL MY FRIENDS EVERY SUCCESS IN THEIR LIVES.

*Ashok Mahajan

Director, Rotary Internatioal (2007-09)Trustee,

The Rotary Foundation (2009-13)

www.ashokmahajan.in

*Smile – Serve – sacrifice- Satisfy* 

No Mountain Is Too High…

When faced with a towering challenge, it is natural to think that it is too big to overcome. You are overwhelmed by the sheer magnitude of the problem and feel helpless. However, a problem remains a hurdle only until the moment you decide to face it head on. 
This decision brings out your innate but hidden capabilities. You replace your old panic with new patience, your old doubts with new self-belief and courage.
For every old door that shuts, a new door opens.  “Impossible is just a word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they have been given than to explore the power they have to change it,” says Muhammad Ali. 
Rotary teaches us live a life of action, to take on challenges and surmount them,  leaving our footprints on the sands of time

BE MORE FLEXIBLE LEADERS

For the last over 18 months the entire world is under the clutches of Covid Pandemic. The uncertainty is all around. Economy in doldrums. People are losing their jobs. Millions have lost their lives . Most of us are locked down. Children are unable to attend schools . Everyone is facing hardship. Now  more than ever before, leaders all over the world are facing change and complexity. 
The Covid  pandemic has presented us all with new challenges, new circumstances, and new uncertainties. Jobs have been morphing, expanding, shrinking, and disappearing; co-workers, teammates, and technology are changing rapidly. And as we seem to be turning a corner with vaccines and organizations are gradually shifting back to in-person work, there will be a new set of norms to adapt to and challenges to overcome. Adaptability is a requirement. Because change is constant and inevitable, leaders must be flexible to succeed. Adaptability is about having ready access to a range of behaviours that enable leaders to shift and experiment as things change.
Always remember that the most successful people are those who accept, and adapt to constant change. This adaptability requires a degree of flexibility and humility most people can’t manage. 
LET US BE MORE FLEXIBLE LEADERS 


Ashok Mahajan 

www.ashokmahajan.in

SMILE  SERVE  SACRIFICE  SATISFY

UNLEASH YOUR FULL POTENTIAL

By and large people can be classified into two categories: achievers and blamers. Achievers think positively and take concrete steps to realize their dreams while blamers remain grumbling about their shortcomings or circumstances. Achievers try to define their life on their terms and overcome the obstacles that come on their way while blamers passively allow others and the circumstances to control them and shape their destiny. May Your thinking help you to understand your real worth and unleash the tremendous potential within you!

*ROTARY CARES*

Relationship makes life meaningful and enriching. No one is ever happy and satisfied living all alone , sharing once talents with none and without having any social concern. Living in and as a part of family and society , everyone experiences love , care , concern and forgiveness. These experiences keep us going in spite of all the understandings and differences that personal inclinations and interests bring along .

A rational beings humans are not confined to a particular family, class or society. He/she belongs to the whole universe, to the cosmos. Hence , human beings are obliged to extend care , love and concern not merely to those who are close to them and those from whom they benefit but to the entire universe resonates the joy that one feels in his/her heart.

Rotary teaches us that everyone  and everything deserves our care , because they are precious and beautiful in a unique and particular way. Care is the attitude of unconditional benevolence and respect irrespective of all distinctions. Only such an attitude of care and reverence can make life truly significant and meaningful.Always  remember, people who care about each other enjoy doing things for one another. They don’t consider it servitude. Let our care be to promote justice. 

BE A SIGNIFICANT PERSON

Rotary is a continuous process of learning, a continuous procee of evolution, a never ending process of betterment. Let us all become significantly more effective and more committed to take Rotary to the heights it deserves.

Remember that it only takes a spark in you that can inspire many to face the challenging world with enthusiasm , hope and courage. Make a conscious effort to inspire the people around you. If your words and actions inspire others to dream more , learn more and become better persons, you are not less than any great and significant people in history.

BE A FRIEND

True friendship is one of my  greatest treasures and I pray that everyone may possess it.
I believe I am a good friend to those I find a connection with.
In my mind’s eye, I always imagine myself surrounded by good  friends , who are there to help, support, guide and encourage me . I always feel the love and care my friends have for me. I allow my whole being to accept these gifts of love , happiness, encouragement and advice. . 
As I imbibe this nectar of friendship, I feel lighter, brighter and stronger than ever. I then offer this love , happiness and light to others.
I know that this will help create all the good that I visualise.
There is no greater wealth than true friendship

Believe in Yourself and Succeed In Life

If you can remove your self-doubt and believe in yourself, you can succeed in achieving what you never thought possible.” 
The prerequisite for success is unwavering faith in oneself and in one’s abilities. At the core of self-belief is the realization that you – and only you – are the engineer of your own success, the captain of your ship.
Self-belief gives you the needed power not to dwell on the disappointments of the past, but to move quickly from failure to success  Self- belief gives you the impetus to get up when you  stumble and march toward your dreams and goals.Always remember. You must believe you can. Yes, you can! 
What a difference it would make if you had an unshakable confidence in your ability to achieve anything that you really aspire to!
By believing in yourself, you will find the courage to take immediate action that will lead you to your goals. And this is the key to success! Yes, the ability to believe in yourself can change your life!It’s true that you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. Therefore to achieve success in life you have to take on your challenges, look deep within yourself to conquer fears. Never let anyone bring you down. You got to keep going and succeed in life .

THE WAR IS NOT OVER

Sometimes, we need to wage war, to achieve peace. World peace is not just the absence of war. There can be peace across the world, only when there is no poverty, no hunger, no illiteracy and no disease.

Rotarians have been great warriors against disease. The Polio Eradication campaign started as a ripple in Philippines that gathered momentum across the oceans and became a juggernaut that could not be stopped. It harnessed the forces of the United Nations, W.H.O, national governments and corporates to eradicate a disease that had crippled millions of children over several generations.

My own experience as a spearhead of the Polio Eradication campaign is that we can never let our guard down. The End Polio campaign faced many challenges including resistance from the Muslim community to the use of the vaccine. Misconceptions abounded regarding the side effects. We co-opted religious leaders to form the Ulema Committee and convinced them to encourage their community to take the vaccine without fear. W.H.O accepts that this was a tipping point in the battle. Bill and Melinda Gates came on board with the $200 million challenge and Rotarians rose as one to meet the challenge. We crossed the finish line in 2012-13 and India was declared Polio-free on 27th March 2014 .

Today, Rotary can be justifiably proud to have almost eradicated Polio from the face of the earth. But … almost is not good enough. 99 % success can be 100% failure. The few cases that crop up in our neighboring nations can make the Polio virus bounce back and threaten the next generation. It is therefore important to remember that until the world is completely and permanently rid of Polio, we must keep Polio Eradication as our topmost priority.

It is often said that God gives burdens only to the strongestshoulders. 

The Covid-19 pandemic was a huge blow to the entire world. Here was a modern-day enemy that attacked us from all sides without warning, with no concern for combatant or civilian casualties. Corona showed us that disease has no nationality, race, religion or socio-economic status. 

Even as Rotarians reeled from the economic fallout and the threat to their own health, we stepped up to fight this new enemy. Rotary India’s Covid Task Force was established to support the Govt. of India in the vaccination drive. Immense contributions have been made by Rotary clubs across the country. Apart from actively promoting the use of the newly-arrived Covid vaccine, we provided refrigerated trucks for transporting the vaccine, augmented the capacity of CovidHospitals, and arranged oxygen concentrators. Rotary clubs also created call centres and information desks to help those affected by Covid. Thousands have been immunized at the free vaccination centres organized by Rotary clubs.

Once again, 99% can be 100 % failure. The disease is far from defeated. Our population suffers from 2 divergent problems. People live either in remote locations or inside densely crowded cities. Those in far-off places need to be vaccinated. Those in crowded places need to maintain sanitation and physical distancing. 

As Chairman of Rotary India’s Covid Task Force and Member of Rotary International’s Covid Task Force, I appeal to all Rotarians to ensure that they, their family members, and their communities get fully vaccinated. Let us work hard to ensure that all Indians can walk free from this disease, forever.

THE POWER OF GOD’S LOVE

Imagine what a beautiful world we would live in if we all just did the best we could in love and light and trusted God to do the rest . I believe Love heals and protects you.I allow love into my life and I AM safe and secure.

I close my eyes and see myself wrapped in a soft blanket of God’s loving energy. I feel my mind and body relax as I allow this loving energy to comfort, heal, and protect me. I see myself going through my day with confidence.  I imagine myself acting and responding from a place of inner peace.  I feel safe and secure in my world.  In my mind’s eye, I see myself and others experiencing the healing power of God’s love. As I quietly exhale, I let these images go.

MY BIRTHDAY LESSON


MY BIRTHDAY LESSON

On my birthday I realised that the blessings of God that you seek have already been given to you. It lies in the primal substance waiting for you to call it forth in faith and thanksgiving . Just because you don’t see it does not mean it is not already there! True Life is full of blessings, not all are seen.
On my birthday receiving so many good wishes from every nook and corner of the globe I fully experienced  the blessings that were all around me. In my mind’s eye I saw myself surrounded by the blessings of God. I felt and sensed those blessings even though I may not recognise them overtly. I imagined myself opening my heart to receive all of the blessings sent to me. As I took a deep breath, I imagined myself allowing my blessings to fill my whole body, giving me strength, courage, and understanding. I said a prayer of gratitude for all the blessings and the special gifts given to me. 
I combined those images with joy and let them go, knowing that they would create the good things I was visualizing and thinking.
I thank God for All His Blessings..

Time and tide wait for none.


Everyone on this planet is given the same resource called time. We all have 86400 seconds in a day. How effectively one manages this God-gifted resource is critical to succeed and flourish in life.
Time is a gift that most of us take for granted. We get so caught up in the humdrums of our daily lives that we rarely pause and take a serious look at how we’re spending this gift.
Many persons have achieved their greatness by using their time productively. They never wasted their time in idleness due to their awareness of the brevity of life and the sheer magnitude of their responsibilities.

Many people fall well short of their true potential due to their failure to manage time well. They set wrong priorities and chase after things that are less important in life.
“Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four-hour days” says Zig Ziglar. It is important to realize that your future is created by what you do today, not tomorrow. Therefore, it is of paramount importance that you set your priorities right, recognize the time-wasters in your life and spend quality time on things that really matter in order to have a flourish in life.

BE A SUPER HERO:

 BE A SUPER HERO:
Your power does not come from your job, uniform, career, status, circumstance, fame or label people give you. Your power comes from your heart, soul, spirit, passion and love that exists inside you and you are always more powerful than you think.

You are not just human being. You are super human . You are a Rotarian. 
If you don’t feel powerful it’s because you have come to believe the illusion and lie that outside circumstances have power over you. You have forgotten the truth that you create your world from the inside-out.
You don’t realize the power you possess. It’s as if you have been given the power of superman or wonder woman but are living the life of an ordinary human being.
You have been given super human power and you are meant to use it. Not just to create your life but also to help others in the community you live in . 

Like all super heroes you have been given the greatest power in the universe. The power to make a difference in the life of another human being. You were made with a super power to empower others.
You don’t need a special suit, a title or a super hero name. You just need to tap into the love, spirit, passion, soul and purpose inside you to create your life and a better world today. Look within and find the hidden qualities in you . You have the potential to change the world. You can create wonders . LET’S SERVE TO CHANGE LIVES …
No cape required

HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN …

HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN …
It has been my experience that you can always enjoy life and be happy  if you make up your mind firmly that you will . 
 Happiness is not about what is currently happening in your outer life…True happiness comes for knowing that God has already blessed you and when your faith is connected to those blessings you will soon see them manifested into your life.I trust that God  has always blessed me with so many good things in life and connected with many good friends that makes me feel that He wants me to be happy alway. I am a happy and trusting person. I enjoy my happiness every moment in my life .
In my mind’s eye I always imagine myself filled with great joy and happiness. I feel the warmth of joy and happiness in my whole body. I imagine myself going through my day with a light heart, smiling, and enjoying being present with happiness.
I am always grateful to God for the joy and happiness in my life and trust that God always wants me to be happy every moment in my life. I combine these images with joy and let them go, knowing that they will create the good things I am visualizing and thinking.
I believe that Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within , in our way of thinking. FIND HAPPINESS WITHIN 

LEARN FROM THE SALMON

Life is not an easy journey but is coupled with many difficulties. For such difficulties we need to thank God. If it was all soft and easy, we wouldn’t be tested, tried, forged in the fire of life. We wouldn’t grow or learn or change or have a chance to rise above ourselves. But for the challenges we face, we would never become stronger. Only dead fish swim with the stream. If you are truly alive, you need to swim against the tide, much like the salmon that swims 200 miles upstream to its breeding grounds. For its next generation to take birth, the salmon must defy the river’s current. Each surge of your fins makes you stronger and fitter, leaner and happier. We get burdened with only much as we can carry. Of course, there are lulls in between, when we can rest for a while and enjoy the moment before the next obstacle gets thrown our way. That’s what life is all about. So what are you … dead fish or healthy salmon?

Treasure your uniqueness

The secret of living your life purposefully and joyfully lies in celebrating your gift of uniqueness. No one before, no one to come; you are absolutely unique. Life’s true gift lies in your freedom to design it beautifully. With each rise of the sun, you get to chase the opportunity to fill your days with meaning—to live your life the way you choose.

Do not spend your precious time and energy in trying to become someone else. You do not have to pretend in order to look like somebody else because you aren’t meant to be like someone else.

You are designed to be different; if you do not exist uniquely there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for the humankind. 
It is high time that you treasure your uniqueness and exhibit your difference courageously. Your inherent power lies in knowing that there is no one who can smile your smile, speak your words, convey your meanings, love the way you love and bring light and life to others the way you do. The gift of yourself is given to you to enjoy and share. Therefore, do not be afraid to give yourself away in your own unique way to your family, friends and everyone you meet on the path of life.

The best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even heard, but are felt with the heart. Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit. The best thing to hold onto in life is each other. It’s always better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. No One Is YOU and That Is Your Power! Treasure your unique power and enjoy life the way you wish .

INNER BEAUTY AND LOVE

Inner beauty can be described as a combination of our personality, intelligence, integrity, elegance, and politeness. It says who we are without any layers of makeup or false presumptions. Remember, if our soul is pure, then our inner beauty radiates and outshines the physical constraints. We should be embracing this inner beauty.
Recognising who we TRULY are is the first step towards manifesting our True Identity! Our inner beauty is beyond measure.
In our mind’s eye We should imagine ourself filled with beauty, light and love. We need to imagine ourself going through our day radiating love, light, and beauty with every thought, word, and deed.
We need to imagine others telling us they can see and feel our inner beauty. We should combine these images with joy and let them go, knowing that they will create the good things We are visualising and thinking.
Let’s Create a beautiful inside and we will look beautiful on the outside

Beauty Of Life

Dear Rotary Leaders
Beauty Of Life 
Life is a consequence of the times we live in. Life is the real thing. Many people spend their life worrying about everything. Even the smallest obstacle is branded as a problem. If problems can be solved, why worry? If problems cannot be solved, then worrying will do no good. If you consider your life as a blessing enjoy it and do what interests you, at least one person will be happy.
Have a Guru (teacher) in your life. A good coach can change a game. A great Guru can change a life. In this life, Rotary has become a guru to many of us in more ways than one. It has taught us, guided us and helped us to do good to others even when you know that they cannot return your kindness except to say, “Thank you,” from some corner of the world. Rotary has enriched our life by making us realise that even the smallest act of caring for others is like a drop of water – it can make ripples throughout the entire pond.
In this life, Rotary has shown us that it is much more than a movement that has given a space for us to gather and share some fun-filled moments. It has given us an opportunity to heal the wounds of people, create jobs, develop economic activities, eradicate diseases, hunger, illiteracy and more importantly sow the seeds of love and peace in the community. Rotary has shown that for our projects to be successful, the activity must not be just for the community, it must be built in partnership with the community. That is why day after day, life has to be a constant process of learning and Rotary gives us the opportunity to hear from people about their hopes for a better life and what they expect from Rotarians. 
One of the secrets of fruitful living is to understand that life is the most beautiful and gratuitous gift. We have to work hand-in-hand with our neighbours to ensure that our life goes on without much hiccups. We must use Rotary as an economic engine to bring hope to thousands of people during these trying times. This will make your life beautiful.
If you are looking for a source of inspiration lately, for a reason to be optimistic about the direction in which your life should move forward, look within yourself. Spend time today, tomorrow and every day visualizing good life for millions of people in this planet. You will be inspired and this is the promise of nature. This will make your life beautiful.
You will wake up every morning with a happy thought of life and will be motivated to engage with your community. You will see a recurring tension between your own ambitions and your duties to your family and society around you. But, it is a tension that anyone working for the welfare of the community and change needed knows very well. This is the beauty of life.

STICK AROUND THE BEAUTY OF LIFE

Life is a beautiful journey that is meant to be embraced to the fullest every day . However, that doesn’t mean you always wake up in the morning and get ready to conquer  the day, but sometimes need a reminder that life is a great gift .Therefore we need to put extra efforts to  make good use of all our potentialities before we finally say goodbye to this world by engaging in selfless service to mankind. 
One of the secrets of fruitful living is to understand life as the most beautiful gift. Unfortunately, many individuals are so engaged with the humdrums of daily living that they rarely sit back and enjoy the beauty of life. 
Individuals who live their lives selflessly will discover the beauty of life at every turn of event. For them life is not merely earthbound but heaven bound, not a rat race for superiority but an act of service. 
They are not hoarders but generous with their resources determined to make the world a transformed place. It is said “If you make each minute of your life fruitful, you will have nothing but a fruitful life”.
Be courageous to lead a purposeful life and thus discover the beauty of life. Remember, we make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give! 

Be a Positive Thinker

Mahatma Gandhi said, “Keep your words positive, because words become behavior. Keep your behavior positive because behavior becomes your habit. Keep your habits positive because habits become your values. Keep your values positive, because values become your destiny.” 

Happiness is the ultimate goal and the deepest longing of every human being. Life is meant to be happy and in every person, there are enough resources to lead a life of contentment. It is said “Your life is determined not so much by what life brings to you, but by the attitude you bring to life.”

Look for something positive in every day, even if some days you have to try a little harder to find something good in it. 

Being a positive thinker doesn’t mean you always have to walk around with a forced smile. Positive thinkers aren’t weak-minded people. Being a positive thinker doesn’t mean that you can’t be demanding. It doesn’t mean that you can’t be a disciplinarian with high standards. Being a positive thinker means that you are relentless. It means that you never give up because you believe you can always find a way to get better and to move forward.

Bad circumstances are not excuses for making bad choices. Two people can look at the same object and see different things. It is your particular attitude that makes all the difference. You can push yourself into happiness or unhappiness. We mold our lives with our thoughts. We are as small as our petty thoughts or as great as our noble thoughts. Good thoughts make a happy life.

Never let a bad situation bring out the worst in you. Choose to stay positive and be the strong person that God created you to be.

FAILURE IS THE PATH TO SUCCESS

FAILURE IS THE PATH TO SUCCESS 
Success can follow after many bad experiences in life. The path to success is filled with difficulties and hurdles. Bad experiences in life teach many valuable lessons and to be successful, it is imperative to learn from the mistakes and avoid them in the future. The most celebrated personalities in the world have failed multiple times. For example what might be at once the most discouraging statement and worst teaching practice of all time, Thomas Edison was told by his teachers he was ‘too stupid to learn anything’.Edison went on to hold more than 1,000 patents, including the phonograph and practical electric lamp. 
Lincoln’s failures were broad and numerous. He achieved the unique feat of leaving for a war a captain and returning with the lowest military rank. 
He next took failure in his stride during multiple failed business attempts. Undeterred, Lincoln marched into the political realm, where he launched several failed runs at political office before his ascendance to President of America .
Today, if you’ve suffered through failures in the past, or you’re going through the torrent of a failure right now, know this — failure will make you better. Failure will improve your life. It will allow you to reach new understandings and inspiration on life, love, business and the people all around you.
Therefore, failure is an essential part of an individual’s life.

TO GET JOY OF LOVE WE MUST GIVE IT

TO GET JOY OF LOVE WE MUST GIVE IT 
Let’s Experience the joy of love within ourselves every moment…
It’s true that I am experiencing joy of love in all that I see , listen and do today.. 
As I take an even breath and imagine myself filled with joy of love In my mind’s eye . I see myself surrounded by a blanket of light reflecting love all around which only allows joyful thoughts into my consciousness. 
I imagine myself going through my day thinking positive thoughts and experiencing the joy of love that is all around me. I see the joy in others as they respond to the joy in me. 
I combine these images with joy and let them go, knowing that they will create the good things I am visualizing and thinking.
I feel the joy of love comes from spiritual wealth coupled with love and  not material wealth… Happiness comes from giving love . If we try hard to bring happiness to others, we cannot stop it from coming to us in plenty . To get joy of love  we must give it . To keep it we must scatter it . 

BE SELF-REALIZED

Self-realized people establish meaningful relationships: They are mindful of the fact that they are dealing with human beings and hence always allow the benefit of doubt to them. They are comfortable with those who are different in colour, race, religion or language. 
Self-realized individuals take the time to mingle with others as they consider it important for learning and self-improvement.They have a cosmic view and a universal mind. They consider the world as a miracle; wonderful and truly magical.

BE UNIQUE

These days we all tend to to notice differences more than similarities. Perhaps it’s the increasing influence of social media that highlights difference and conflict between people.
The secret of living purposefully and joyfully lies in celebrating your gift of uniqueness. No one before, no one to come; is like you. You are truly unique. Do not spend your precious time and energy in trying to become someone else. 
You are designed to be different; if you do not exist uniquely there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for humankind. 
Treasure your uniqueness and exhibit this gift courageously.. Your inherent power lies in knowing that there is no one who can smile your smile, speak your words, convey your meanings, love the way you love and bring light to others the way you do.
The gift of uniqueness is given you to enjoy and share. Therefore, do not be afraid to give yourself away in your own unique way to your family, friends and everyone you meet on the path of life.
“The person who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The person who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever seen before.” – Says Albert Einstein

Overcoming the challenges in life

 Overcoming the challenges in lifeWhen faced with a towering challenge in front of you, it is natural for you to think that you are too small to overcome. You feel overwhelmed by the sheer magnitude of the problem and feel helpless.
However, it is a fleeting feeling in the sense that a problem remains as a challenge only till the moment you decide to face it head on using all your faculties. In other words, a problem serves as an impetus to discover your innate but hidden capabilities and bring them to the fore.
It is time to replace your sense of bewilderment in the face of challenges in life with strong self-belief, to replace impossibility with possibility, fear with indomitable courage, self-doubt with brimming confidence and negativity with infectious positivity.
It’s true Success is determined not by whether or not you face challenges , but by your reaction to them. And if you look at these challenges as a containing fence, they become your excuse for failure. If you look at them as a challenges , each one strengthens you for the next.
Your destiny is not to go through life passively without leaving your footprints on the sands of time, but to be impactful and irreplaceable with your uniqueness and insurmountable spirit.Always remember The greater the challenge, the more glory in overcoming it.

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT SERVICE

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT SERVICE
Service is an act of personal involvement . It is the result of an innate desire to give a little back to the society that has supported us- that has given us what we possese.Service is not due to what happens to us. It is due to what happens with us. The riches we enjoy are due to others who have made it possible. Returning a part of what we have to the community is not only our duty but our obligation
There seems to be some value to Rotarians to observe the needy at close quarters.The pain of others should generate pain in us-pain which is painful enough to stimulate compassion.
”  Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care.” says John Cassis. 
Remember ‘the measure of life is not in it’s duration , but in its donation.Everyone can be great because every one can serve.’ reminds Peter Marshall.No one achieves greatness without being of service. never reach out your hands unless you are willing to extend an arm and your hear. YES FRIENDS, LIFE IS ALL ABOUT SERVICE. 

LEARN TO BLOOM AMIDST THORNS

LEARN TO BLOOM AMIDST THORNS
The roses is the king of flowers. We all appreciate its beauty.  Roses speak of love, give a heavenly scent, and have breathtaking colors.
But beyond their pristine beauty, roses impart wisdom to us. Just like a rose blossoms amidst sharp thorns, we should also seek to overcome conditions that suppress our potential.
For many, life is hardly a bed of roses. It is easy to get cowed down by the negativity around us since positive thinking requires effort. However, the great achievers are those who make a  conscious effort to turn negative forces into positive ones.You may be surrounded with nay-sayers,  but you can choose ignore them and become what you really want to be .  
If you believe that you are going to fail, you might unconsciously sabotage every opportunity to succeed. If you crowd your mind with pessimism, you might well radiate negative energy into the universe, resulting in failures and disasters. It is important to understand these mental dynamics.  Become someone who fought the odds and influence the lives of others who may be going through the same struggles. The next time you admire a rose, learn from it the art of thriving amongst the thorns.

TRY TO BE KINDER

TRY TO BE KINDER Kindness is an interior disposition that makes a person place others before self. It is not a fancy luxury we allow ourselves to have but a fundamental responsibility as humans. In a world torn apart due to conflicts of various nature and intensity, an act of kindness that you can show to others can make a world of difference because there is no tranquilizer in the world more effective than a few kind words and deeds. You may not be able to make a difference to the whole world in your lifetime; but an act of kindness can definitely make a difference to the person it is shown.One of the strange things about kindness is that it compels the beneficiary to show forth kindness in his/her life!  Its true that Nothing multiplies so much as kindness, Therefore, it is up to you to make a decision that no one ever comes to you without getting away better and happier. Always remember that the best portion of a good life is little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.Be kinder and make the world a better place to live in .

Leave a Little Sparkle wherever You Go!

Leave a Little Sparkle wherever You Go!
Once, a friend of Dr Albert Schweitdlzer hosted a party in honour of him at a posh restaurant. When it was time to cut the cake, Dr Schweitzer poised the knife and counted the people. There were nine of them, but he cut the cake into ten pieces. Handing the tenth piece to the waitress at the restaurant he explained, “One piece for the young lady who so graciously served us.”
Dr Schweitzer is a fine example of persons who leave an indelible mark on people with their simplicity, integrity and dignity. When you look back, you will recognize the tremendous impact that some individuals have on your life. The presence of such beautiful souls is an inspiration to bring smiles to the faces of those around you. 
A meaningful life is not about being rich, popular or highly educated. It is about being genuine, humble and sensitive to the needs of others.
If you wish to leave your foot prints on the sands of time, remember the words of Brandon Lee: “Immortality is to live your life doing good things, and leaving your mark behind,”