When things go wrong in our life , we may tend to attribute it to our destiny. But the fact is that destiny is not a matter of chance , rather it is a matter of choice.When we say destiny is within our control we mean that we can control every aspect of life . Every event is always caused by some kind of action , any action is the result of an act of the will ,and it is the will that makes the choice. Therefore the choices that we make in life determines our destiny. When we make a wrong choice the outcome will be unpleasant. Right choice takes us towards success and creates happiness. If we blame our destiny means we were irresponsible for our own choice. Many a times when we look back on certain happenings or the events we normally say “ I wish I had done that differently “. It means our choices create the cause – and – effects that dictate our life experience.Every moment in our life we make choices. It is up to us to make the right choices that design and shape our life . With the help of our creator, who acts through our conscience, we can create our own destiny if we are careful to decide what and how to choose.If we are serious about our destiny and achieving success then we must put extra efforts to prepare our plans , stick to the plans and follow the road map. It is certainly advisable to have plans in action and not to keep them in our head . The plans must be written down and reviewed from time to time . If we follow the plans I am sure we will be destined to do great things .