| Love is beautiful, spacious, exhilarating. When we truly love, it’s not only the body of the other person we love. If we only love the body, then it’s not love — it’s lust. When we really love someone, we love their essence, their soul, the core of the other person, not only their body. That’s how you know it’s really love. The dilemma is that so often we don’t really love someone’s core essence – we only love what they do for us or how they treat us or how they make us feel. And, when we love for that reason, that’s more like a contract than like love. “When someone says he loves you more, he does not mean he loves you more than you love him . He means he loves you more than the bad days ahead of both of them . He loves you more than any fight both of you will ever have. He loves you more than the distance between both of you . He loves you more than any obstacle that could try and come between both. He loves you the most.” All the same Love isn’t about turning a blind eye to difficulties. It’s about identifying them, understanding them, and moving forward despite them. Love presumes to see the other person in their most authentic light, to acknowledge all their imperfections, and choose to embrace them. When problems ensue, one should not disregard them, and one should avoid pointing fingers at each other as it can only cause additional conflict. Partners in a relationship should act accordingly by working together to find a solution that benefits both of them. All said and done, I would say that Love is the greatest gift given to man! Save it and enhance it . |
Ashok Mahajan
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