Politeness: A Costly Commodity We Seem Unable to Afford
A smile costs nothing. A “please” and a “thank you” cost nothing. Yet, in today’s world, it often seems that politeness has become such a costly commodity that many people cannot afford it.
In our race for success, we have become impatient with others and sometimes even with ourselves. Social media has made us quick to react but slow to listen. Courtesy is often mistaken for weakness, when in reality it is one of the greatest strengths of a human being.
My journey in Rotary has taught me that true leadership is reflected not only in the projects we complete but also in the respect we show to every individual. Rotary’s Four-Way Test asks, “Will it build goodwill and better friendships?” If we paused to ask ourselves this simple question before speaking, many misunderstandings could be avoided.
The most admired leaders are rarely the loudest. They are those who listen patiently, appreciate generously, and treat everyone with dignity. Their politeness earns respect long after titles and positions are forgotten.
Service Above Self is not only about serving communities. It is also about serving humanity through kindness, humility, and courtesy. Every respectful word strengthens relationships. Every thoughtful gesture builds trust.
Politeness costs nothing, yet its rewards are priceless. It creates goodwill, reduces conflict, and inspires others to do the same.
Perhaps the greatest service we can render today is not merely to help people in need, but to make kindness and respect a part of our daily lives. A courteous society is a compassionate society—and that is a legacy worth leaving behind.
Ashok Mahajan SMILE SERVE SACRIFICE SATISFY